Are you single or attached?

Singapore
October 25, 2008 10:36am CST
Hi to all fellow lotters, as above.. i am single at the moment and i have not met my love yet, i do not have anyone in mind right now. I think theres nothing much i can do other than wait for her to appear. Currently i am enjoying singlehood. hehe. Are you single or attached? do you feel that the commitment is of a relationship is too much for you?
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• United States
25 Oct 08
I too am enjoying singlehood. I got out a relationship about 2-3 months ago. It was a real eye openeer, and now I am just being me. I work on hobbies, focus on school and family. I have time to go out with my friends and go on dates. I really like where I'm at. I think that when your in a relationship you spend so much time thinking that you have to make that person happy, and although that is true, you shouldn't have to give up your happiness or forget that it's important as well. I don't mean to sound selfish but this time being single is great because with work and school, I do have time in between to do stuff for me and make myself happy. Right now where I am at in life, a relationship is too much for me to handle right now and I have so much on my plate. I just take every day as it comes and whatever happens happens when it comes to the whole meeting someone. Right now I'm all about just getting out there and having fun.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
31 Oct 08
I am currently dating someone and I highly enjoy it. I love my boyfriend and the time we spend together. I like having a committment to someone and being committed to him. I think your plan to wait for love is a good one; i was never one to go out and "hook up" with just anyone.
@Humbug25 (12551)
27 Oct 08
Hi there swarovski87 I am seperated from my husband since 2 years and am waiting for the divorce to go through. So I guess I am single but still married!!
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I am single and have been single for a very long time and its hard to find someone to be with since it seems that every girl is taken by a guy and that just makes it worse. I can never meet a nice single girl who I would go out with if I had a chance.
@iamcdy (1120)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
Hi swarovski87! I am attached and happy. I have been attached for the past six years and I guess I am ready to be more attached in the near future, next year hopefully. I have not felt like my current relationship is too much for me. I feel that it is just right, which is good because we do not want to lose ourselves in the process of making our relationship stronger as time passes by. Well, being single or attached is a decision. So if people stay single or attached, it is their decision and what's important is that it makes them happy. =)
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
25 Oct 08
i am single & plan to stay that way.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
25 Oct 08
Hi there Swarovski87... I'm single now for about 2 years and I'm happy about it. Being single makes me enjoy all things since there is no one that wouldn't allow me to do so. I also find being single cool because I have enough time for myself, for my family and my friends. Maybe on time, I'll find the right and perfect guy for me but as of now... I'm really happy with my status... It makes me enjoy everything in life... It is just so cool... Happy mylotting! Keep on Posting...
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
25 Oct 08
Hello,Swarovski! I am attached to my wife for the last 39 years.Not for many days we stayed separate.Get yourself attached to some beautiful girl of your choice and lead a happy and prosperous married life.Sooner the better.thanx.