HUSBANDS: Do you stop loving your wife or look elswhere if she gets fat after..

United States
October 26, 2008 10:05am CST
you marry her??? I'm wondering if it is really possible to still love your spouse if they have gained a ton of weight since you first met/married them. Do you ever think about leaving them? I am asking because while I have a great marriage, I have gained a considerable amount of weight since the beginning (2 kids and a crashed thyroid) and I was wondering if he really could still be happy with me. How would you feel in the bedroom about this? I plan to have surgery in a couple of months to reverse the lard but it will be 6-9 months from now before I start resembling the person I used to be. Do you think he is honest when he says he loves me regardless? Is it possiblt to still love someone who has changed so much?
4 responses
@Nhey16 (2519)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
i think my husband would still love me even if i get fatter... coz i used to be so thin when we met, and when i got pregnant, i gained weight, and still now, i still have those gained weight with me, but im trying to lose weight because of health reasons. :)
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
27 Oct 08
this is a very interesting topic. i would want to know from guys perspective about this topic.
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@eshaan (6193)
• India
26 Oct 08
I think he is right...love is regardless of all these things...and then he has seen u earlier...newly falling in love maybe doubtful but he who loves u from many years can't change his mind just because u have changed physically. You should believe him or your confidence will go down and that may affect the relationship.
• United States
26 Oct 08
Your right about the confidence. I try to keep it to myself, sometimes I cant. Thank you for sharing...
@Nhey16 (2519)
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
i think your husband really loves you so much, coz men doesnt really look on the physical features of women but they tend to look on what's inside. and regardless of how you look, your husband would still love you just like the way as he loved you before.