love or money?

@jhl930 (3605)
United States
October 26, 2008 5:56pm CST
i use to hear that saying if you could have love or money which would it be and i always use to say that i would rather have money because it was less drama but i have been in a relationship with my girlfriend now for nine months and she is amazing and i couldn't really ask for anything more...and now i see that if i had a million dollars it really wouldn't mean anything without her, so if you could choose love or money what would you chose? i would like to take this time to thank everyone for taking the time out of your day to come by and read and review my discussion and hopefully answering, and trying to help me, and i hope that you all have a great day and night tonight, thanks again for taking the time to stop by.
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10 responses
@zhaosonghan (1039)
• China
27 Oct 08
I think most of peoples will face this problem,i am a realism,so i think the money is important.It doesn't mean the love is not important,but actually the love base the good condition of live,maybe someone don't agree with me,think that,at the begin you may feel wonderful when you fall in love,and you think everything is beautiful,just they are togeter,and other things you don't care,but this feeling can flow away gradually as the time passed,then the money will be more important,you will face the real live again,i just think that if both we can have it is so cool!For me if it must choose,i will choose love first,i can earn money by myself,the love,it is hard to find,if i met i must cherish.
@taripres (1499)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Yeah homie, sounds good in theory, but I'd rather take the money then love! It's true money is nothing without having someone special to share it with, but how about not having any money and no one? or losing your love because of not having any money? Happens all the time, women are able to do bad by themselves, they don't need any help, as well as, us men! So I'd rather get my money together, at least I'll be able to pay way and worry bout love when it comes! Taripre$
@mariposaman (2967)
• Canada
27 Oct 08
The answer to this question is easy, it's money. With money you can buy love. Without money nobody loves you. Without money you have no house, no food, no transportation and end up a bum on the street begging for what? money of course, and everyone hates you for being a bum, except other bums of course, even your girlfriend. You are still young yet, enjoy your fantasies while you can.
@xayuk69 (268)
• Malta
27 Oct 08
I think both are important but I think to have love makes us more happy because you cannot describe the feeling of having somebody to love and being loved in return. I think in life it is very important because "no man is an island" and everybody needs to be loved.Money are also important,but what is the use of having a lot of money and having no one to love you and share it with! I choose love.
@lovely30 (26)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
me i prefer to choose love because u cant buy love through money, well of course we need money but we have no tataol satisfaction if we dont have love in our heart, like for example, i like that person and then she never love u, u mean u buy here love through your money but always remeber that if u buy something there is a tendency that it will be broken too, or there is a limit so better that there is a total love thatn showing a money to them
@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
27 Oct 08
Hello! If I could choose between love and money, I would choose love. Love is something like a great power, it makes you break barriers and surpass your own limits. With love, there is nothing in this world that we cannot do. We are capable of everything when we have love by our side. If I had a million bucks, I would have no goal in life. I mean, I didn't work for my money, so all I would have to do was spend it, but no big objectives... No dreams at all. With love, I would have my dreams and my partner's dreams, which would be like living twice as intense as now. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
@sankata (236)
• Estonia
27 Oct 08
For me I would say, that money is more important. That's because I'm not so in emotions. But it can also be because I haven't met somebody who has such a big effect on me ? anyways, I don't know it. But I'm sure that now in todays situation is money leading the board.
• United States
27 Oct 08
If you could live without money, then I would pick love. Unfortunately, that's not the case. Money it is.
• Philippines
26 Oct 08
Money isn't everything so I guess I choose love. We can always have money whenever we think of possibilities but love is not like that. Love is growing and its fruits are rare were as money is just there and we only need to work it out(sometimes effortless). The chinese immigrants in the philippines were very frugal and now they lead the economy. There was several featured stories weekly about the onced poor folk and the fruit of their perseverance is grand. Love is worth choosing because its part of us that when deprived, happiness wont have its meanings while money cant buy all the happiness in the world(riches sometimes is a burden)
@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
26 Oct 08
I used to think that I would prefer love but the experiences that I have been through give me money anytime. If it so happen that love comes with the money then I will still be happy. I make sound bitter but it is my opinion. I have always shown love and think that it would move mountain but what another does was to abuse my sincerety so I have change my reflection (as we would say in Jamaica) I am singing another tune.