have you got caught cheating?

Philippines
October 27, 2008 2:53pm CST
were you ever caught red-handed cheating on your partner? if so,what happened? did you guys break up or were you forgiven for what you did?
7 responses
• United States
27 Oct 08
I would never do that. I love my boyfriend more then anyone in this world and i know he is the one for me. People that cheat just need to get out of that relationship no offense to anyone that has ever cheated on someone. But yeah. I have never and i never will
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
good for you. please stay that way.. happy mylotting!
@rainmark (4307)
27 Oct 08
Well inmy case, i never cheated my husband since i married him. I stay faithfull to him. And he also do the same thing to me. We have a good relationship together, we love each other and we care for each other so we are faithful. Hope noones break that oneday. Happy posting.
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
that's good. i hope your relationship will stay that way.
27 Oct 08
Well, I was caught cheating once, and it was awful! Basically, I had an ex and a current boyfriend. I was with the ex for 2 years and the new guy for a few months. I couldn't work out if I was over my ex and he gave me the impression we were getting back together. Not so, it would seem, and after our one night stand, he refused to talk to me and my new guy found out. He went mental, we split up for a couple of weeks and then got back together. Our relationship was never the same after that, even though we did last for about a year and a half after the incident. It ruined it for both of us, there was no trust, nothing, and it just wasn't fun! I often wonder how we lasted as long as we did! It's not fun to cheat on your partner, and it's happened to me many times since, and I understand the pain I caused now. It is not a mistake I will be making again!
• Philippines
28 Oct 08
i was in the same situation with my ex of 2 year and a boyfriend of couple of months.. i though i'd get back with my ex.. no, he was just leading me on! i hated him for that and after that, he wants us to be best friends! would you believe that?!
@jstmarfz (1499)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Luckily, I was never caught because I did not cheat my husband. But with him, I did! It was late already when I discovered when he dumped that foreigner digger but still I was pissed so I broke up with him which only last for a week. I realized that its not worth it to end our relationship for 1 big mistake he have done out of confusion and depression. I did the right decision, and we are both happy now and hoping it wont happen anymore.
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
it's good to know that you made the right choice and you are sticking to it and committing to never doing the same thing again..
@rubypatson (1842)
• India
27 Oct 08
Cheating in any form is bad and this is the worst, if trust is lost in a relationship then everything is lost
@Jezebella (1447)
• United States
27 Oct 08
I never got caught cheating because I never cheated. I have caught my ex cheating on me. We talked online sometimes because we lived far apart and well I sent him a message and the response came from a girl who said she was his girlfriend. When he finally got on he admitted she was his fiance! Needless to say I broke up with him.
@lynnemg (4540)
• United States
27 Oct 08
I have never cheated on my husband, or any previous men in my life, so, no, I have not ever been caught cheating. I believe that if I ever wanted to be with someone else, it would be best to just break it off before moving on to another partner. I have been cheated on many times, and I would not want to inflict that kinds of pain on anyone.