What's your next partner doing right now?!

Sweden
October 28, 2008 5:26pm CST
That very question got me into serious thinking today while I was on my way home. What's your next husband/wife or boyfriend/girlfriend doing right now? Who knows. Did they ever think of you before you guys meet? (yeah, that question came of a little weird sounding.) Every thought of this? And if you're together/married to someone right now, have you ever asked them that question? That they thought of you (as a stranger) before they even met you?
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@carolscash (9504)
• United States
30 Oct 08
well, that would be a very hard question to answer.I hope that I never have a next partner as I love my husband and cant imagine life without him. We have had some really rough times but I think that it has made us a stronger couple and I am sure that it is no more than most couples who have been together for awhile. I will celebrate my 15th anniversary next year and I can hardly wait!
• Sweden
1 Nov 08
Perplexing question is hard to answer :) Rough times brings the loved ones closer. That's what I believe in at least, but then there's also exceptions. I'm very glad for you and I hope you get to celebrate your 15th anniversary with your husband! :)
@sunshine4 (8710)
• United States
29 Oct 08
Nope, that never crossed my mind. I guess I don't see any significance in it. How could I have thought about my husband before I even knew him. I guess I knew that one day I would be married, but not to who. Right now my husband is working~ probably making hamburg...he is a butcher.
• Sweden
29 Oct 08
I understand. It was just one of those perplexing and crazy questions that comes to my mind in a moment of boredom that'd like to hear others' opinions on. You don't actually know who your going to marry to until the day he/she proposes to you. (:
• China
29 Oct 08
I never thought this before,I love my wife so I didn't consider it necessary to think that who is my next patrner.my wife is my classmate in the collage,and we work in the same company now.
• Sweden
29 Oct 08
No, you're right. It's not necessary if you've found your partner that you'd want to spend the rest of your life with. My question was more if you every thought of 'her' (without knowing you'd end up with your wife - her) before you even met her. WHat she did just that very moment you thought of her. :) That's very sweet though. Take care of her and thank you for responding! :)
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
Im married now to a very thoughtful and loving husband that he even asked me not just once but more than 2 times 'if i already had an idea that he is the man i would marry before we met?and how come he didnt find me before long ago?"Thats really hard for me to answer him you know because he said he already had an idea before that he would marry me and that makes me smile. But he is so serious about it because he said he cannot imagine how many years he wasted before he met me and if only we found each other that time then we would been married and enjoying each others company. Now that we are together and married already i dont have to think too much what's my husband is doing because i always knew it or he always tell me. We dont have any secrets from each other and we always talk about whats going on... And i dont have to ask myself if he thinks of me too even if im not beside him because sometimes when he arrived from work and see me then he said he cant concentrate from work coz he's thinking about me.Isnt that so sweet of a husband to tell you something like that?
• Sweden
29 Oct 08
That's very sweet of your husband, indeed. Take care of the relationship you have. Have a nice day and thank you for responding!
@stealthy (8189)
• United States
29 Oct 08
I wish I knew so that I could go on and meet her and not waste any more time. I could use a final solution to the partner situation.
• Sweden
29 Oct 08
Yes. That's perplexing me too. What if I found 'him' (mr. Right)? Did he thought of me (miss Right)? How do you know that you've wasted your time? If you wasted your time, then why didn't we met earlier? (not directly to you, but to whomever will be right for me in the end (:) Thanks for responding!
• India
29 Oct 08
Yes it happens. I and my wife went to tehsame place on the same date, though we did not know each other. We did not meet each other there but probably may have seen each other. if we had met I wonder if we would still have got marreied?
@moneyandgc (3438)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I have never thought of this before, so no I haven't ever asked the question. I hope that I never need a next partner. I love the one that I have now. Not to mention I am on my second husband as it is, I don't really want to start over again. lol