Which is better?

@Corimore (249)
United States
October 29, 2008 11:02pm CST
Being single and dating a lot or being married? I have a friend who would say being married and dating a lot. What do you think?
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8 responses
• India
19 Nov 08
I am a man but i think a woman woudl love to be a single mother and be dating a lot. if she were married, dating a lot would have been more difficult. A maareid woman dating woudl be commiting adultry but a single mother is free to do as she pleases. She is a free bird yet has a family. It is not a must to have a permanent man.numerous men will be at her beck and call.
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@Corimore (249)
• United States
23 Jan 09
single mother and dating is pretty much a oxymoron. It's a difficult thing to manage at least. Will your child like him will he like you after you tell him your a mom. I know I was a single mom for 7 yrs and only dated a few usually after finding out i had a child they ran for the woods. My husband now is a really good man he has adopted my son and we have a daughter together and just had twins recently R.I.P.( they passed away) and through all of this we are a strong couple so I believe having a partner in life to support you is the best thing.
• United States
1 Nov 08
i wuld say dating alot first.that way u kno if u found the rite person to be married to and that u truely love them instead of marrying a complete stranger that ur not attracted to.i wuld give anything to be married to my boyfriend but its guna be awhile since we got a kid on the way
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@mizcash (686)
• Canada
30 Oct 08
They are both great. Being married gives you he opportunity to be in love and have a companion and a family and also have that oneness with a mate. Being single has it's perks, you get to meet and date different people, you have the freedom to do things, go out more and definitely less responsbilites. Not tied to one individual ans it's easier to end a reltionship if it's not working out.
• Germany
30 Oct 08
I would tell anyone who is single; really enjoy your life being single. I adore being married, but I really miss my single life. I didn't take too much, but I loved having options. Most people who complain about being single have low self confidence. I know for a fact when I acted like I had the most confidence in the world, I got any guy I wanted. They really are two different lives and they both have their good and bad qualities.
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• India
30 Oct 08
Being married and dating to find that extra someone? ummm not a bad idea. i wouldn't mind. hey but I need my wife's permission for it. No luck. i have never really dated. i wish I had got a chance to date. Dating was not a way of finding a wife in our country. It is mostly aranged marriages. i wish i had dated a lot of girls Ummm it would have been fun. Can i start off now?
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@yuna15 (2707)
• Philippines
30 Oct 08
I agree with your friend...Being married and dating a lot (with the same person of course ). Being married should not mean you should stop dating or stop the fun. If you don't keep on doing this your relationship will get boring as time goes by. You should still keep the spark between each other. It's also good to be single and date a lot until you find the one for you just be careful not to hurt anyone along the way or at least avoid it.
@rsa101 (14901)
• Quezon City, Philippines
30 Oct 08
It depends on how matured are you when dealing with relationship. When you are still young you tend to date a lot that is because you want to learn what it is all about. But as you grow older your priorities do change and your needs also is evolving into a different level of maturity.
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• Malaysia
30 Oct 08
I think it is better that we date a lot first and find who is the most suitable person to be our spouse in marriage. Nowadays it is easier to find a matching mate through the online dating service. You should go dating with all of them, and try to know about them to the full extent. Make sure you are being their friends for more than a year before you make the right decision, either to start a new level in your relationship or just to continue as ordinary friends. After you have found the most suitable person to be your marriage spouse, then you can get married. After you are married you must be loyal and never have any intention to find someone else. This is a bad thing and no spouse can tolerate such an attitude in marriage.