When People around You Reluctant to Help You!!!

@sdas86 (6076)
Malaysia
October 31, 2008 7:07am CST
Hi, Now I finally know who s true to me and who is "acting" in front of me. I finally know who are my true friends and who are not. When some of your good friends start to hide from you and start to avoid you when you face problems, they are not true friends. Have you found out who are true friends and who are not?
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@mokbul (616)
• Singapore
31 Oct 08
You are very correct. True friendships are tsted in times of need. You may find many friends buzzing around in your good times, ther will be very few or none, when you are in problem. I still beieve in 'self help is the best help', if any friends comes along they are welcome and I shall consider them as actual friend. I did not had a oppertunaty yet to test true friendships.
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@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 08
Hi, Thanks for your response. I also believe that self help is the best help because sometimes, it is really hard to trust other people.
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
Hello there! good for you that you already figured out who are your friends and who are not. Well I have a lot of friends but I seldom ask for their help. I am much of a giver type and really makes an effort when one asks for my help. My friends I have come to know since high school and I have some from college and all of them I don't count that much when I had a problem. When you have a partner in life that is considerate and understanding I think you will never had a need for a fried that will always be at your side. As for the friends I have, well we go out and chat and I always treat them differently, only according to how they would treat me and so expectations are avoided.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
Hi, Thanks for your response. Now, I know who are my real friends. I am happy.
@Bebs08 (10690)
• United States
31 Oct 08
Yes, very easy to identify right? many opportunist are really good to you when you have plenty then they will disguise are friends but when you are in trouble you can not hardly find them around.Tthat is human nature. You are right!! true friends can be found in times of need.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 08
Hi, Maybe next time when I need to find out who are true friends, I will try to ask for help from friends. If they really help me, then I can say they are true friends.
@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
31 Oct 08
Hi there my friend. The thing is that you must find out by yourself who your true friends are and that you can only determine when facing difficult situations where they could help, but choose not to. In time many people i believed to be friends turned out to be just chasing their own personal interests, but i have managed to gather 2-3 real friends along the way, and i think that made it worthwhile to put my trust in people regardless of the occasional pain caused by traitors.
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@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 08
Hi, I think I need to find more true friends. I already know that I have a few true friends but I need to find more.