When People around You Reluctant to Help You!!!

You are very correct. True friendships are tsted in times of need. You may find many friends buzzing around in your good times, ther will be very few or none, when you are in problem. I still beieve in 'self help is the best help', if any friends comes along they are welcome and I shall consider them as actual friend. I did not had a oppertunaty yet to test true friendships.

Hello there! good for you that you already figured out who are your friends and who are not. Well I have a lot of friends but I seldom ask for their help. I am much of a giver type and really makes an effort when one asks for my help. My friends I have come to know since high school and I have some from college and all of them I don't count that much when I had a problem. When you have a partner in life that is considerate and understanding I think you will never had a need for a fried that will always be at your side. As for the friends I have, well we go out and chat and I always treat them differently, only according to how they would treat me and so expectations are avoided.

Hi there my friend. The thing is that you must find out by yourself who your true friends are and that you can only determine when facing difficult situations where they could help, but choose not to. In time many people i believed to be friends turned out to be just chasing their own personal interests, but i have managed to gather 2-3 real friends along the way, and i think that made it worthwhile to put my trust in people regardless of the occasional pain caused by traitors.

Yes, very easy to identify right? many opportunist are really good to you when you have plenty then they will disguise are friends but when you are in trouble you can not hardly find them around.Tthat is human nature. You are right!! true friends can be found in times of need.