what is your attitude about failure?

@clarkmy (428)
China
October 31, 2008 8:59am CST
as far as failure is concerned ,options vary widely some take failure ad fatal to what they have undertaken ,to them failure means the end of the world and they will readily lose heart and give up. others views it differentlt they know foe sure that failure is inevitable but temporaay ,and so they are read to learn lessons form setbacks.they never allow failure frustrated them and truned into the stimulations. still others appear unconcerned after failure occures ,but they do not take active action to improve their performance , so the later we should study for them , and my friend what is your attitude when you meet the troule or failure?
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11 responses
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
facing failures can really be detrimental to a person esteem. failure can either make a person and the worst is it will break that person who is on that situation. when i was younger and haven't had a stronger relationship with our Maker i am one of those who are afraid to fail in life but eventually i realized that we should learn from those failures for this will make us better person. experience for one is a good teacher. at times we have to fail so that we can acknowledge that life is not a promise of bed of roses. what is important is that when we fail we have to get up and gather the broken pieces and start all over again. what is important is we learn from it and don't let it hamper our growth and to reach our goals and dreams in life. Learn and Live Life to the Fullest!!!
@clarkmy (428)
• China
1 Nov 08
i sincerely appreciate your response,and you tell us a real experience with facing failure that how we should do ,from yu said ,the failure is not afaind of but the real scary thing is that you never facing the failure ,,, however,how long and hard road we must go to ,,we should facing it bravely and victory in spite of all terror,,,,, wishing u happy
• Malaysia
1 Nov 08
I think that failure is key fundamental of success. We will only know the value of success when we ever meet failure. As for me, I normally will accept failure as fact and try to find the problem to slove it. This is because if we don try to solve the problem, the failure wll always be there. Beside that, I also think that giving up hope is a stupid behavior as we must always try our best to get thing done. So, normally I will try to get out from the failure as soon as possible and find the solution to the problem.
@clarkmy (428)
• China
1 Nov 08
thank you very much for your response,,, your spirit really worth to learning ,,and i will study for you ,, i think everyone should move forwoad towards its goal ,and we never avoid the failure before we gona to strive for the sucess,and this time ,we can't give up easily and contiue to struggle with all difficulties,,, thanks a lot , happy with u,,
@android (895)
1 Nov 08
In my opinion you have to fail in order to learn what doesn't work. If we didn't make any mistakes or fail at things then we wouldn't learn what does and doesn't work. Take a baby for example. If a baby tried to walk but couldn't and failed and decided to give up because they failed, then nobody would be able to walk!
@clarkmy (428)
• China
1 Nov 08
hi ,you said right ,,we are from a little baby grow up ,,and we have met the same experience that is trying to learn how to walk and if we don't have the failure of walk and how can we running ? so the failure is the necessity of life , i am truly thank your response,,,and happy with u ,,
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
4 Oct 10
Well failure for a certain time a biggest loss and in future, the failure will be a caution to win the next oppurtunity. from my experience
@stiener (736)
• Singapore
25 Nov 08
As a human being...we are all winners before birth as we have managed to find a way into the egg and fertilize it. We all face our first failure when we attempt to walk but fell countless of times...after much hard work, we managed to stand on our feet and subsequently learn to run and jump. These are the most basic things that all abled body human beings have to go through in life. Failure is a reminder that we are not perfect but we can work towards perfection if we keep improving...it is a reminder that there are much more things we can learn so that our daily lives become more enriching by the day...it just mean that we are constantly looking for greater challenge and improving our lives... All in all "Failure is another step towards Success" all that matters is that you care to take every step to move forward.
@xcrizzx (80)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
FAILURES... We all have our fair share of it.. Life isn't life without it.. I look at FAILURE as a lesson and opportunity.. Failures teach us what not to do, and gives us an opportunity to try new things.. The most successful people in the world are those who are not afraid to fail. Besides, it's never about how much or how often you fail that counts, but it's how you get up, how you learn the lessons in life and how you turn it around and become a winner..
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
Failure is part of our life but it should not be an obstacle to strive harder and dream for the gold. I myself, had many failures already but as much as possible, i try to learn from my failure or mistakes then make it to a point to not do it again. I just hope that God will give me enough courage to go on especially when I am at my worst.
• United States
1 Nov 08
When I don't achieve what I feel like I should, I feel like a total and utter failure! My bad attitude might last around 2 days, but I eventually get over it.
@vicky30 (4779)
• India
1 Nov 08
When i meet trouble and failure.I sit calm and try to prepare for the papers i have failed.I know i will be sitting one year at home and missing my college friends.It gives me an opportunity to prepare more well for the exams.I failed at least three times in my graduation exams still i never quit and cleared successfully.
@gemini_rose (16194)
31 Oct 08
Well in the past couple of years I seemed to have failed at everything that I have tried my hand at! I guess I must be trying the wrong things or something. At first I used to let it get to me really bad and would sulk for quite a while, but now I just bounce right back and try again!
@dong1970 (1573)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
I don't think negatively on failures i took it as a challenge so that the next time i do it could be a successful one.