I can't face departure

China
October 31, 2008 10:51am CST
My boyfriend has just got on board to another country and I can't face this. When he said goodbye to me via MSN, I am shocked though he has tols me his schedule and I know he is going right this evening. I begged him to just go, without any emotional words that people tend to say before departure, like“ take care", "baby, I will be back soon", blah, blah, blah. They can just bring me crying. For the last 40 days since his coming back from UAE last time, we have been spending every weekends together. Though we work and live in deferent cities, he managed to come all the way ro visit me. And I am used to enjoying weekends with him, but now he is in the plane and will be another country, far away form me. I miss him so much! What I am gonna do? This is winter and I am all alone, all weekends, for two months.
5 responses
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
31 Oct 08
[i]Hi Denise, Hopefully, you can just set a weekend for chatting and seeing each other through webcam, I know it's hard since you are used to have him but try also to hang out with good friends![/i]
• China
1 Nov 08
Right,like last time, we just chat on line and share our life. Finally I will get used to it. Thanks for responding.
• Australia
31 Oct 08
After my boyfriend knew i'm migrating to another country we had a mutual agreement to break up and stay as friends because the relationship's not gonna work in the long-term. It's been nearly four years since i migrated and we still keep in contact. I think departure is harder on the friends you leave behind while you go forward to new places.
• China
1 Nov 08
Yeah. I know long distance relationship is hard to work and so we have been planning to get in the same city. Hope it is in the near future that we can be together. Thanks for sharing.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
31 Oct 08
Oh! you love your boyfriend so much that I envy your lover. If I have a girlfriend like you I would be so lucky.But it never can be happened. Because I'm a married man.My wife also love me and I love too.But we don't have romantic feelings like you.After marrage romance fly away.I wish this will not be happened to you.You both will be sinked in romannce.How sad! This is winter. Who will warm you?
• China
1 Nov 08
Hi bhanusb. Thanks for sharing your situation. I think finally we will also get into marriage and then passion fly away. But since you still care each other and you are family, it's ok. For the winter, I will just warm myself, maybe with romance:)
• India
31 Oct 08
I can understand your feeling because my best friend also in a same situation like you. That is he helped his girl friend in every way to get to Singapore, after she got job there , her parent does not afford the money to send her to Singapore even the office take care of all the travel and accommodation, but she have to purchase some things to herself, even for that her parent won't spend some thing to her. But my friend done all the purchase for her and book a flight ticket to Singapore. And after she went he is became worried a lot like her girl friend, both are crying in the phone and after one month she can't stay there without him so she come to India by taking transfer. That is love. happy lotting and have a nice day.
• China
1 Nov 08
Yeah, yor friend is into great love. Here we are also trying to find solutions, like I will find a job in his city and vice versa. I guess it just takes time. Thanks for sharing.
@arunmails (3013)
• India
5 Nov 08
Hey, don't worry..... there are many ways to contact your friend, we have many options to talk, you can use your, 1. msn messenger 2. yahoo messenger, 3. webcam for your video chat..... Don't get into the worry world, make use of the technology and get enjoy........