marriage and love

@mansha (6301)
India
November 7, 2006 7:29am CST
Is it true that love goes out of window once you get married? I feel no it just changes its form. what do you think?
5 responses
@j_thomas (961)
• India
7 Nov 06
Yes love changes it form.u never forget love it never leaves you.
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@mansha (6301)
• India
13 Nov 06
I think so too it turns in to comfort and trust in other person.
• United States
13 Nov 06
I believe love just changes. Marriage is difficult enough, you are trying to get to know each other, your likes and dislikes and then you add kids to mix and things really get complicated. You do need to remember to find time for each other even if you have kids. And COMMUNICATION needs to stay intact. You have to agree on how to raise the kids, otherwise you'll but heads way too often and that complicates things. If you can keep some sort of romance between you and remember to keep time for each other it should all work out ok. At least that's what I think and I have been married 21 years.
• United States
13 Nov 06
i think once you get married you start getting comfortable with each other to the point you stop trying so much to please the other person..a first full make up then gradually only eyeliner...only lipstick..ahh only when you leave the house...so i think it changes alot once you are married on both sides ..but stopping loving each other i dont think so
@saq786 (736)
13 Nov 06
i say no, love before marriage, it is idealistic, romantic, looking forward to a future, dating, envisioning yourself being a mother/father of future children.....after marriage, it can, hopefully be deeper, more connected, growing as a couple without outside influences, complete knoweledge that no matter what the future is whole, it should be unconditional, or its not a true marriage, if you dont see yourself, unconditionally loving, nurturing, accepting, and putting your partner before anything else in the world, then you shouldnt even consider marriage
@briennekb (613)
• United States
13 Nov 06
It only goes out the window if you make it. What happens to the love between two people after marriage depends on many different factors. The events that surround our lives will determine what will happen in love.