is my daughter confused?

United States
November 4, 2008 8:57am CST
hi ever one- i wrote a topic the other day about my daughter that i left with her marine dad 25 years ok.she contacted me and wanted to start a relationship with me.i am married now for ten years with three small boys.she has three children and has never been married but does have a boy friend .her dad talked to me and said he was very glad she is able to talk to me.but later she told me he could not believe that i want to be amother now.her dad is going thru a divorce now .and she would like to move closer. he said he could never live with out her.i ask if he would consider moving with her?so he could be with his grand children and her.the other day her boy friend her and her dad were all fighting with one another.they all seem to be very confused .do you think it is best to let all of this go and let them go back to the life they had before me?
2 responses
• United States
4 Nov 08
shes your daughter! and shes wants a realtionship with you, so give her one. It doesn't matter what might be going on in her life right now.. she contacted you and asked for help. help her, she's your blood. You are very lucky you even heard from her again. I know some people that were in the same place as your daughter and would never even think about talking to there mother again. Make up for all the time you lost with her!!
• United States
4 Nov 08
I agree with alibabes88. I think you should at least try. Good luck with what ever you decied.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
4 Nov 08
she's your daughter no matter how you see it. even if it took 10, 20, or even 30 years...the fact is she's still your daughter and she wants to know you. just give her the chance.