Is it ok to live with someone before marriage?

@ctraska (103)
United States
November 7, 2006 9:11am CST
I guess I don't really have a problem with it. The rest of my family thinks that it is horrible.
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10 responses
@janaleed (78)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think it is fine. I did & I found out that we were not compatible..Happy I found out now instead of later/.
@ctraska (103)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Definately better to find out sooner rather than later.
@krysy1982 (1042)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I live with my fiancee now. We are getting married in march 07. We already have children together. We would have gotten marries sooner but our parents wanted us to what till we older. I guess they finally gave up and decided we were not going to break up. I was 16 when I got pregnant.
@skyblade (483)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Its definitely a personal decision that you have to make. Of course some people are going to think its a bad idea while others will think its a great idea. You do what YOU want. For me, I have been living with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I definitely have learned a lot and know that we are not ready for marriage yet.
@Sm00tH (2040)
• Belgium
7 Nov 06
this can be considered as the last test to see if u can live with ur loved-one and the other way arround. no problem there
• Canada
7 Nov 06
I think it's a great idea to live together before marriage. It's easy to have a relationship with someone when you aren't with them 24-7, but things change when you seem them at their worst and not just at their best. You may find things that you can't live with, which is why we have divorce, so it's good to find out before you get married.
• United States
7 Nov 06
It's between you and God.
@kutchi (12335)
• Pakistan
7 Nov 06
Yes, I dont have problem with it
@zeeterman (1067)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Yes. I think it's important to do it. It's like a trial marriage. If it doesn't work out living with them, then you know it won't when married.
• United States
7 Nov 06
I really dont think anything is wrong with it.Try it out,hey` you might not even want to get married after that LOL.I've been living with my boyfriend for 4 years now:)
@mshenzi (246)
• Kenya
7 Nov 06
Yea especially if he/she is rich.