how are you when agry?
By Rainegurl
@Rainegurl (2156)
Philippines
November 7, 2008 4:34am CST
hi everyone!
i become still, i count my actions and i talk calmly. that's a dead sign that i am angry. i guess this is because i am more mature and i have learned that freaking out will get me nowhere. when i was younger, i would shout and make a lot of noise when i am angry. but when i thought about it, i am sort of humiliating myself and it does not solve the problem. so now i keep in mind that i should be calm. but i become more lethal. LOL!
what about you? how are you when angry?
happy mylotting!
5 responses
@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
7 Nov 08
When I'm angry everyone in the house knows it and I say what's upsetting me. I dispise it when people don't say anything then a week later for little to no reason at all they snap and you're left there wondering what the heck you did.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
hi there friend!
i know exactly what you mean. i have a friend whose husband is like that. a quite man who almost does not get angry. but when drunk, just about twice a year, he snaps and all his kept anger pours out. i kept laughing when my friend told me about one thing she did in the past that made her husband angry. she only knew her husband took offense a year later. LOL!
take care, grandmaof2!
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
7 Nov 08
I normally do not control my temper very well. Even when I am angry normally I try to keep clam. My problem is that I generally do not get angry on others, it keep my anger in my mind and that has proved to be very bad thing for me at times. Of late, I have learnt one thing to this problem.
If it is possible I move away from that particular place and try to divert my mind to something else for few minumtes and then start thinking what I should do in that particular matter. I also feel that getting angry and shouting will not give me the solution but it may spoil the things many times. I have found this trick to be quite useful because I am in a better position to understand the situation and think of the solution when I am bit calm and cool.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
hi, deserve40.
right, go away and divert my attention to something else.
i will try that next time.
thanks! take care!
@rrowenaa (834)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
I don't wanna get angry. Because when i'm really angry, i wanna burst it out. I throw away things near me, sometimes i break down and cry. I don't want my things to be broken or hurt someone so everytime i think im gonna explode, i'll take a deep breath and think of some nice things to chop off that negative feeling inside me.
@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
those are the things i am afraid of doing when i am angry. eventhough i have learned to control myself, like you, i still do not want to get angry.
thanks for responding.
take care!
