is it men's instinct to cheat?

cheating - cheating men uncovered
@eiram25 (1077)
Philippines
November 7, 2008 8:56am CST
when it comes to relationship,i always come across of cheating boyfriends and/or husbands.until now,i still don't know why most men,if not all,are like this.why do you think so??
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5 responses
• India
8 Nov 08
Well that isnt all true. Well its from one guys head to another. Well its very weridly spread also. This happens only if that particular guy is been dumped by a girl very badly and then he gets hurt and then avenges thats he will never commit and will always cheat becasue when he was normal nothing good happend to him anyways. And then these people have their own groups who get influenced with his moves and stuff. Like this there are soo many people and now it is a tradition. All stupidity man. Well i am NOT like that. Lol. I have a Gf since past 2 years and 11 month !! Almost going to be 3 years. Will marry here. Dont worry :P :)..WEll anyways happy mylotting :)
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@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
well,she's one lucky girl then to have you as her husband-to-be.i also agree with you.we behave to certain things depending on the experiences we went through.thanks for sharing! post it here whenever you do get married.lolz!
@elitess (5077)
• Ipswich, England
7 Nov 08
No matter how many men you may have known that cheated you, you will never be able to say that all men are the same, just like i can't say that all women are the same as each and everyone of us has his /hers way of being and there are some guys out there that actually don't cheat and want a stable relationship (Like me) and settle for nothing less.
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@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
nice point you got there.well,every person is unique but i haven't stereotyped all men to be like that.lol.thanks for sharing.cheers!
@froogle (776)
7 Nov 08
nope. i dont think so. i have come across many kind and generous men in my life and at the same time also come across the ones that who cheat. i believe the reasons for men to cheat can be attributed to many things. especially the way they were brought up, their friends circle, mentality, situation, etc
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@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
well,every person is unique depending on how they were brought up and also the kind of environment they grew up on.your response gives me hope that there's still men out there who knows how to treat their woman right.cheers!
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
I don't really believe that its a mans instinct to cheat.. but rather, its their nature. Men want to have physical contact or connections with some other party aside from who they are dating or married with but that doesn't mean they'll choose the other party rather than the original. It's just a mans nature. I don't really understand why men are like that, but I think its just a matter of choosing the right person(the loyal one) or loving the wrong one(who has a tendency to cheat),, Also, women also cheat on their man. It just really depends on the person if he/she is faithful and who knows what they have when they have one. I just hope I'm lucky enough to find a man who's loyal and who sticks to one.. to me. :D
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@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
lol! likewise,i also hope to find a man who's loyal.it kinda makes me think it's sort of impossible.lol. anywayz,thanks for sharing.
@egdcltd (5832)
7 Nov 08
I read in a book (not sure if it was being serious) that men are by nature polygamous and women are unfaithful. The reasoning was this: Men have the urge to get as many offspring as possible, so sleep with as many women to ensure this. What women look for in a man depends on whether or not they are fertile. If they are fertile, "bad boys" tend to be more attractive, as they are picking traits that will ensure their offspring will survive, when not fertile they look for "nice guys" who will be good providers for their children - again increasing their survival chances. Not my opinions, and, as I said, I don't know if the author was actually being serious.
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@eiram25 (1077)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
having read that info also makes me think if the author is indeed serious or not.anywayz,thanks for sharing the info.happy mylotting!