is it ok to marry a girl who is 2 years older to you?what do you think.

India
November 7, 2006 11:03am CST
its not a issue now a days.time has been changed a lot.In love,age does not matter,what matters truw attraction to each other.what do u say?
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@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think it is ablsolutely fine to marry a girl who is 2 years older than you. Once you are out of high school, age doesn't really seem to matter anymore. I have heard of guys marrying women who are 8 years older than them, and even 30 years older. I don't see a problem with it as long as they are happy!
• India
7 Nov 06
30 yrs older?R u sure?where r u from buds?i mean from which country?
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@MissK1 (214)
• Portugal
29 Nov 06
Like you said, age doesn't matter anymore.
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• India
29 Nov 06
hmmm,i agree but most of the people still think it matters.do you know why they think so?anyways thank you for your comment.
@Sm00tH (2037)
• Belgium
7 Nov 06
ofcourse it's ok man, it's only 2 years, that's nothing.
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• India
7 Nov 06
thanks for your comment.
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@BrendaA (365)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Absolutely. Two years is not a big difference in likes and dislikes. Go for it
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• United States
18 Nov 06
If you love her and she loves you, then this should not be an issue. I say go for it and be happy.
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@michele609 (1687)
• United States
7 Nov 06
It does not matter if she is 2 years older then ,(unless your 16 and shes 18 because then people can press charged), if the love for her is strong then you shoulf follow your feelings, just make sure that she feels the same about you also:}
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• India
7 Nov 06
nice comment.i am getting some strenth in me. you know what my parents are strongly against this and they told they will detach from me if i will go for her.i love them and i love my gf also.i am not getting what should i do.tough situation for me.really!
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• United States
28 Nov 06
yeah. its. ok. i think it's not a problem. u can love any one u want.
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• India
29 Nov 06
thank you for your reply.it was encouraging.
• United States
7 Nov 06
love does not have an age
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@sabrinam (1203)
• United States
7 Nov 06
My Jason - my baby
I am two years older than my fiance and it works fine, we love each other more everyday and I don't even think about age. That only comes up if people ask. Sure it's not the norm, but neither is an old guy and a young girl, but that happens. Just tell people to get over it.
• India
7 Nov 06
after reading your post,i am getting some kinda power in me.u told its nt the norm.just think.u,being an american are telling that its nt the norm.what will be my situation staying in india?my parents are totally against it.i love my parents and also my sweetheart.i dont know to whom i should go for.really a tough situation for me.
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@mchu519 (465)
• United States
18 Nov 06
It is not an issue at all. For some reason all my friend's girlfriends or like 1 or 2 years older then them. I guess its a new trend or something. Girls are just into younger guys nowadays.
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• India
19 Nov 06
yeah i also think so...
• India
19 Nov 06
yeah i also think so...
• United States
7 Nov 06
yes, i think so
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• India
7 Nov 06
but what if parents will oppose?
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@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
7 Nov 06
i don't see anything wrong with it, nowadays more and more older women like younger men, but 2 yrs isn't even much of a difference!!
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• India
7 Nov 06
really?2 yeras is nt a much difference?r u sure.i am glad.my gf is 2 years and 2 months older to me.thanks buds for spriting me up.
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@talisman (1300)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Two years? Of course! Two years isn't that long at all. People two years apart from eachother in age are still pretty much in the same place in their life. Why wouldn't it be? That's just silly.
• India
7 Nov 06
people two years apart from eachother in age are still pretty much in the same place in their life?what did u mean by this?please clarify.
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• United States
24 Nov 06
Yes what does it matter how old she is? Unless one of you is a Minor and the other an adult. That isnt right. And the reason it isnt right is because the younger one is not mentaliy prepared to display his or her own original thoughts without being overpowererd by the older person mentaly.
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@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
24 Nov 06
I agree with you there and was going to post the same reply that it only matters if one is a minor and the other is adult. Very good reply. Otherwise age should not matter in the least as I find older women very attractive and would not have a problem marrying a woman older than me.
• India
27 Nov 06
thank you both for sharing your nice thoughts,thank you once again.
@roxy_stp (913)
• Romania
29 Nov 06
if you love a person it dosen't matter how all she is
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• India
1 Dec 06
you are right.thank you.
@Cortney (3980)
• United States
29 Nov 06
as long as you are both of legal age to get married and ready to make that step.. yeah sure.. go for it... I am 4 1/2 yrs older than my husband
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• India
1 Dec 06
at which age did you conceive?thank you for your response,
@cikedo (3483)
• United States
29 Nov 06
That isn't a big age gap. I think it would be ok.
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• India
1 Dec 06
thank you for your reply.
• South Africa
29 Nov 06
Age doesn't matter - unless you are a cheese :) If you love her then what does age matter? All that matters is that you have a solid relationship - she could be ten years older and it wouldnt make a difference. Love is love :)
• India
29 Nov 06
true.i admit.thnak you for your answer.
• United States
29 Nov 06
it doesn't really matter, as long as you love the person... and you think you can be happy with that person.. then there's nothing wrong with that
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• India
29 Nov 06
thank you for your comment.
• India
29 Nov 06
yeah there is no problem in marrying a grl who is younger than you diff till 3ys is ok
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• India
29 Nov 06
why till 3 yrs?any specific reasons?
@thegood1 (52)
• United States
29 Nov 06
it does not matter as long as GOD put it together. if it is put together by GOD you would not even see the numbers you would just see the love
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• India
29 Nov 06
great answer.very much philosophical and touching.thank you bro for your nice and sweet reply.