tragedy strikes. my lover passed away day before.

I am so sorry for your loss.I know no words can take away the pain you are feeling right now.The number one thing you have to try to do is remain strong during this sad time.My thoughts will be with you.

My heart goes out to you and I understand all the emotions that you are feeling right now. It is always hard to lose a loved one and there is a mourning and a healing process to go through. But God will lead you through this, just believe in Him. I lost my hubby 10 years ago this month, just before Thanksgiving and I went through the entire range of emotions the first day, all at once, anger, fear, resentment, sadness, grief, disbelief, denial, just every emotion possible. Then the healing began. I have moved on, but he will always have a special place in my heart, I still love him, always will in a special way no matter who I am with. My mother gave me this advice: Think of ALL the times, not just the good, but the bad too. Think of your relationship as a whole when you think of her and it will help. God Bless.

oh iam so sorry you lost your love of your life i will pray for you and hope you will pull through this devastating moment.again iam sorry and god is close to you she is with him now he will take care of her,don,t worry it,s going to be ok.

I'm so sorry to hear this from you! Losing someone you loved forever was a great pain and we all totally understand how you felt right now! Please stay strong and i sure that she won't not want to see you like this but to fulfil all her wishes for her, right? And she will be happy that you love her so much and glad to be with you once. Cheer up and life still have to go on, Strive forward then!

I must say that this is really sad. :-(... I recently had a family loss and let me tell you its is not easy. May God be with you and your loved ones. God bless all the ones baring this pain...

My heart goes out to you Froogle. I can't even imagine what you are going through. I wish you all the best and hope you find something or someone that can help heal your pain.

oh froogle, i'm so sad to hear this thing happen to you i'm very very sorry i can't imagine how painful it is but i can only pray and wish for you that you'll be strong through the loss i believe we all here in mylot will always be there to support you froogle be strong.. :) now your love is in a good place surely she will always live there deep in your heart :) God bless you froogle ..

Hi froogle, This is very sad news and I am feeling so sorry for you and know that you must be going through terrible pain right now. Do everything that you have to do and let all your grief out. I for one will welcome any discussions that you may post here and don't worry about negative emotions, we are your friends here and will listen gladly, so write whatever you feel about your lover if it well help you. You are in my thoughts. Blessings.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your Girlfriend. I know this won't help much but time will help to easy the pain after a while. God bless you on your journey through a dark time.

I'm so sorry to hear that. From now on, she'll be your angel and she'll guide you from recovery. God has plans stored for you and I know your lover will be very happy. ^^,

I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure your lover loved you & will always look over you from a better place. God will always be next to her, guarding her. I somewhat feel your pain. I've also had someone whom I really cared for, leave my side. The first few days were extremely hard for me, every little thing reminded me of him. I felt weak everytime I thought about him. The best way to control your emotions is to cry it out and get over it. Your lover will never fully leave your side, part of her will ALWAYS be with you :) R.I.P *

Hello froogle I'm sorry to heard that. You make me remember about my ex ( used to be my lover). He passed away because of leukimia 5 years ago, I know exactly your feeling. I thank to the Lord because He gave a great parent, family and friend. Especially He gave me my husband now. He's the one who stay beside me until now. I hope you can through all of this. God have a great plan for you. She already in the right Hand and in the best place. God bless you

That is so so so sad. I cant even imagine what your going through. I've only been with my girlfriend for a little over five months and I couldnt imagine losing her. It sounds corny now, but eventually everything will be fine. I lost my father a while ago so I know what your going through. I'm not going to lie, the next few months will seem horrible, maybe too much to bear, but just stick it out. Eventually you'll be able to remember all the good times you two had together. God bless you

Froogle so sorry to hear about your loss. I pray that you find peace and that you are able to stay strong through these trying times for you.

I'm really sorry about your loss. It's always tragic to hear of such stories. I don't mean to be sinister in any way, but one comfort may be that, if she was in pain when the bus hit her car, she is no longer feeling it. She is in a better place.

I think I know how you feel. Mine was murdered in another part of the country. The bond between us was strong. At the time she was attacked with a knife by someone she trusted I was on the slope of Mount Angsi, Malaysia. Since morning I had a foreboding and felt uneasy. At 12:15pm. 4th November 1994, I stopped in my tracks and turned around facing south, because I heard my name being called from that direction. The next morning I told my students I had to leave early because of a strong reason which I didn't know then. I helped to bury her. 14 years and I still remember it. There is still a part of me missing her, maybe because I have not met anyone who can really replace her. It is normal to feel sad. But remember we are still alive, and we may be able to contribute positively to at least the society we live in. May you remain steadfast in this tribulation.

I am really sorry to hear that. That really have left you depressed. In the past few weeks there were 7 deaths which i have heard about. And all of them were from my university. out of those 7, 2 were friends of mine. I am so depressed about that news i hope all of them rest in peace. And GOD give them place in heaven

Oh, froogle. I am so, so sorry to hear this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you now. I find this hard to write to you. I cannot even imagine your pain. When someone special passes on. It does not mean that they are gone. Even though they are not with us now, Their memory will live on. Today do not say goodbye, for this is not the end. Just say until we meet again, My dearest kindest friend. I am sorry I cannot write to you. I feel for you right now. I will talk to you later. I am so sorry. God bless. My thoughts are with you and your family.

I am very sorry for your loss. Keep in mind tha she is now in a better place, and pray that she did not suffer a great deal before she passed away. Even though you feel life is doomed, in time you feel better. I am sure she would want you to make the most out of your life instead of being depressed permenantly.

oh froogle, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. and loss it is indeed and I am sure there is nothing that might seem at the time to take your thoughts away from the what ifs and whys. There is no doubt about it that there will be people around you who will be ready with some handy advice as to how to get over her. But I am telling you something that you dont need to get over her. She best remain in your heart forever. She brought love into your heart and so you keep her in your heart as the source of love and happiness that you had once known with her. And remember just one thing that even though she might have to go through much pain when she passed away, she passed away knowing that she had the unconditional love of someone she loved.