hard to say i"m sorry

@gotetet (197)
Philippines
November 11, 2008 12:07am CST
why is it truly not easy for us to say i'm sorry when we commit mistakes, be it a small one or a big one? its because it touches our ego, but its in ourselves to make a move to how and what must be done to approach the person we once misgiving. have you experience that?
3 responses
@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
i do apologize if i commit mistakes and sometimes the person that i told the words like my husband is mad of me because i never learn from my mistakes but for me i really try my best not to commit a mistakes but maybe i am a human that i could not do a perfect one for them. But i have known a person that she never say sorry even we know that she commit the mistakes and she keep on denying, i dont know what is her reason why she could not say it i guess she always pretending to be perfect at all time.
@meticulo (1286)
• United States
11 Nov 08
Yes, it's really hard to say "I'm sorry." But as for me, I can easily say I"m sorry if I committed mistakes. It just takes us to be humble. Being human, we have the tendency to be proud and boastful at times especially if our ego is being strike. And so whenever we commit some wrongs, we either ignore it or deny it. Why is it really hard to say it? When in fact it's just a two simple words. But being human too we don't have anything to boast because in the first place we are only made by God for His purpose, not to do our own. I can say saying "I'm sorry" is just easy to say if you have a light and warm heart. Because if you have that kind of feeling, you can right away accept defeat and mistakes. We just have to bear in mind that nobody is perfect and we tend to commit mistakes. We just have to try not to make pride over rule our head and everything will be as easy as possible to ask forgiveness.
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
Hi there Tetet! I am not sure but I don't remember having difficulties apologizing when I know that I am at fault. I guess it's difficult for other people because it hurts their pride.