is there any reason why your husband or wife having an affair to someone else?

That could be the reasons, yeah it is true. Some of the times it is because the love is no longer there. There are many reasons why the love is not there anymore. Sometimes it is because the couple doesn't have a child. Sometimes it is because one of the couple has another lover and therefore he or she finds her husband or his wife no longer attractive. To me when there is an affair, I would suspect that my husband no longer loves me. That is what I will feel because if he loves me in the first place, he would never do such things to hurt my feelings.

there are a lot of reasons why a relationship wont work, usually one getting bored with the partner, and ends up looking for someone else, or the wife does not receive satisfaction and vice versa...

Although we are not in the situation but I have my friend case which in lined with that. Many, says that most men are called polygamous but not all. I can say also that it will depends on the relationship they have on how they treated each other. If husband and wife trusted their relationship and themselves it will last long and less arguments. The only key that I know is Trust and love. Well there are reasons i know and I have observed from my friends relations to his hubby. The boy turned to another woman because the girl is always in their neighborhood trying to tell all the news around the world and after that she does not attended her husband needs. Mostly are common reasons. I'm hoping it will not happen to us. :)

From what I hear from friends that's been through this. Some are desire to love more than one. For some, they complain their partners are too busy and hardly have any time together. There are many other factors that can lead to that. Only they themselves will have the answer to it.

Helo. I have got marry. I have a girlfriend. I love her,She love me. Best wishes to you.