Relationship or Single

Spain
November 12, 2008 2:01am CST
Why is it always when i'm single I want to be in a relationship and when i'm in a reltionship I want to be single?
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9 responses
@candysky (855)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
well, i don't know why you have that thinking, maybe you have meet the correct person.... for me, when i 'm single i want to be in a relationship, and now, i'm in a relationship and enjoy it... i don't wish back to single, it too lonely....
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• Spain
12 Nov 08
I just think that I love doing my own stuff and i can be my own person without having to answer to anyone. But im glad that you are in relationship and loving it,
@candysky (855)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
well, for me, i don't feel i reporting to my dear but i share all my things with him.... I think maybe you change your mind then you will enjoy it... Have a nice day...
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@annierose (17690)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
We are just human and we are characterize as people who not know how to be satisfied. I think for this situation, one must learn how to enjoy her state whether single or in a relationship. Both of those two states has it's own advantages and disadvantages. When you are single you can feel all the freedom of being single but somehow you feel that your life is lacking because there is no special one who will see after you and care for you.But when you are in a relationship,you somehow feel you want to be single and be free in your decision in your life.
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• Spain
12 Nov 08
That is so true
@zhaychel (610)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Nov 08
I think your not yet ready to commit yourself to a stable relationship. In your state now, you're confused as to what really makes you happy, whether single or in a relationship. People who doesn't know what they really want have interpersonal issues with themselves. ^^,
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• Spain
12 Nov 08
But I have always been a person that I never know what I want in every aspect of my life thou?
• United States
12 Nov 08
I am sooo the same way!! Youve got my number! I think maybe we miss things like open flirting and doing whatever with whoever when we r in a relationship and when we r not we miss having someone to b super close to and just chill with just be with and all that comes with it ya know. Or maybe we r just ppl that want what we dont have at the time!! I so loved being single after a 10 year whatever it was but somehow i always get roped back into THE RELATIONSHIP!! oh well they both have there points.Maybe things will change for u when you truly find THE ONE lol good luck Funky
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• Spain
12 Nov 08
I thinks it is the open harmless flirting and doing what you want when you want, But in January im moving back to the uk and I will be single back, so I will see how I am then lol?
@chardyme (1633)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
I feel the same way sometime too.
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• Spain
12 Nov 08
I always feel like that thou, who knows I might change and I might not.
@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
12 Nov 08
I believe that maybe 2 explanations to this. You are either still not enough developed emotionally to commit to a long term relationship and still want to experience with life before settling down, or you have not found the person you deem worthy to spend your life with.
@phoenix25 (1543)
• United States
13 Nov 08
The grass is always greener on the other side.
@Bethany1202 (3432)
• United States
13 Nov 08
LOL Oh well -- I guess the grass always seems greener on the other side! Both have their advantages. Being single you have more freedom to do whatever you want without as much regard. However, being in a relationship you have constant companionship and partnership which comes with certain responsibilities as well.
@shekher (272)
• India
12 Nov 08
hi, this is life dear