is it cheating if you have been seperated for years but not legally?

United States
November 12, 2008 3:17am CST
Just something my boyfriend of three years and I ,were discussing earlier.He says that i am cheating on my husband and i say i am not because we are seperated and quite obviously not getting back together.What do you think .who do you agree with?
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@annjilena (5620)
• United States
12 Nov 08
nope if it,s over it over the reason he say you are cheating because of a piece of paper it,s long over it,s just harder to get out then it was to get in.
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@LadyMarissa (12162)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I'd be more worried why, after 3 years, your boyfriend has suddenly decided you are cheating. Sounds to me like he's looking for a way out. Personally, I don't think you are cheating. Yet the Bible says there is NO such thing as divorce & you are committing adultery. So, you need to decide how you feel. If you truly have NO feelings for your ex, then it is NOT cheating!!!