what will you do if somebody told you that your GF/BF is having an affair?

@eds28b (126)
United States
November 12, 2008 10:42pm CST
The girl have a fiance (from USA) and she will be having her embassy interview soon. This girl happens to have 2 account in a social networking site and somebody who knows the girl saw a picture of the girl kissing another guy (a real real real kiss). This is posted in at 1 of the sites. It seems that the 1 site is for the other guy while the other 1 site is for the girls fiance. This somebody (the one who saw the picture) save the picture and told the fiance about it. But the girl told her fiance that its a friend of her friend that is trying to broke them apart. But here is the scenario: The profile of the girl where the picture was supposedly seen is in private profile. So if "I am the friend who is trying to broke them apart" I wont make that profile private. I will let everybody to see the picture. But they said "fiance" believed the girls story. If it was you. will you still trust her 100%? Wont this kind of issue give a relationship a doubt? I myself can believe the girls story because I myself witnessed something like this.... any opinion????
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@chevill (316)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
I've been through here and I feel so hurt whether it's true or not. I feel so sad because my point is he should not do anyhting malicious to avoid that other people will think they have an affair right?
@eds28b (126)
• United States
13 Nov 08
you are right! i am sorry you experience this..
@Bethany1202 (3432)
• United States
13 Nov 08
I guess it all depends on the couple. I would be suspicious but try to trust my boyfriend because he's never done anything for which I should distrust him, and he's proved to be honest time and time again. I would be devastated. I know he loves me and wants me happy, but I guess you never know what can happen.
@eds28b (126)
• United States
13 Nov 08
it might me true or not but the bottom line is its only them that knows the real deal. Me too, I trus my husband 100%. He never did anything that makes me think otherwise. thanks for your opinion :):)
@celticeagle (119872)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Nov 08
I would have done the same thing. I think the fiance had a right to know. I don't know if I would let everyone see the picture but I would want to plee my case. Such things should be kept private. Relationship in doubt? Yes.