would you commit suicide if your girlfriend/ boyfriend plans to leave you?

Jamaica
November 14, 2008 10:46am CST
hey guys, ok. so some weeks ago i got a call from a former class mate. she told me that her boyfriend tried to commit suicide because she was going to leave him. she said she found him struggling with some cords around his neck off the floor. apparently she was just i time to stop the process from going far as he didnt die. she called for help and got some help from a neighbor and they took him down and off to the hospital they went. she said he had blood in his eyes.
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26 responses
• United States
14 Nov 08
number one in my life is me, and you probobly deserve it if your psthetic enough to let another person make you feel worthless enough to do that, everyone rocks, and deserves to be happy, you have life and its sweet, so use it, if the girl or boy wants to go, look at is as an open door.
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• Jamaica
14 Nov 08
i truly agree with you there are so many people in the world so i can never undrestand a situation of such nature. i dont think anyone should take their own life for any reason at all.
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• Philippines
15 Nov 08
no... Life is beautiful! why waste it with an unworthy man? GO ON WITH LIFE! leave the past and step forward with your best smile... there were plenty of fishes in the ocean! life must go on!
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@bestie (3272)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
Why should I? I have many means to live my life even without a boyfriend!I won't do anything to hurt myself if that happens.
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@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
well that's really hurt but i would not do such action. it's a sin
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@mengrufa (239)
• China
15 Nov 08
what a pity. your classmate is so silly to do that, may be it is a good solution for him, but it is not for his relative and any one who cherish him. We should not ruin ourselves for a single thing. Perhaps a few years later, when we recall the things that we did before, we will find that isn't worth of doing that. Silly thing we think that is, in fact , we we don't exist for ouselves but for others.
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@money1 (99)
• United States
15 Nov 08
That is so sad he needs some god in his life because if he was willing to kill himself over his lost relationship then he has some very serious issues and that might not be the only reason for his attempt. He should get some help.
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
wow, this is new to me. i often seen this on television and i never heard some of my friend did so. if that is the case, to answer your question, definitely not,.. i mean, during the break up, i guess it would be painful. but i think i have to think for my future too. there are a million of people around the planet, and sooner i guess i would be able to conquer the negative feeling about it.. hmm. what a sad thing to do.. i hope that you won't do it too..
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@Amberina (1541)
• United States
15 Nov 08
I wouldn't commit it I mean I would be sad but not wanting to take my own life.
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@dodo19 (47038)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
15 Nov 08
I wouldn't. There will always be another. Besides, I have a good family and amazing friends whom I love. I couldn't do that to them. They would have to be the ones who would have to live with it. Besides I'm enjoying life too much to give it up any time soon. It's simply not for me.
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
15 Nov 08
Oh hell NOOOOOO. Nobody is worth dying over. If they don't want to be with me, somebody else will. I don't need somebody else's love to feel worthy!!! Anybody who doesn't want to be with me is the one losing as I have tons of love to give!!!
@Ainokea (162)
• United States
14 Nov 08
This is a very serious situation as I've had friends in it... They pretty much are stuck, but sometimes you need to ask the other person do you really want that to be the reason I'm staying by your side? I doubt he really was trying to kill himself in anyway, didn't sound like he was hanging so he would automatically pass out if he had coords around his neck. Plus even when your unconscious your body tries to remove it. It takes around 30minutes for someone to hang... in such cases they should seek immediate mental health treatment, as they are often severly depressed and maybe to dependent on the significant other. I personally would have a really hard time getting over if my girlfriend broke up with me, I'm not quite sure how it would go. but I'm confident in our relationship so I dont even have thoughts of us breaking up.
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@kasouyumi (165)
• United States
15 Nov 08
No. How could you love someone THAT much?
@myclique (116)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
heck no! i want someone to stay with me out of love not because of blackmail. forcing someone to stay in a relationship will just end up causing both parties in misery.
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@jenisky (406)
• Philippines
10 Mar 09
oh no..that's a big NO for me..i can never imagine myself doing that..there are still life after the break up or separation..we should all love more ourself first before loving others..
@laglen (19759)
• United States
15 Nov 08
No way! Tomorrow is another day! There are other fish in the sea!
@Annmac (949)
15 Nov 08
I wouldn't even think of it if my husband of 38 years left me! No-one should be that important that you couldn't live without them! There are always others who need you and who knows what the future holds. I felt I wanted to die when I lost my son but I never thought of taking my own life. I could never have given that grief to my own parents! I knew that one day I'd find happiness again and I've 2 super kids who have given me 30+ years of that.
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
16 Nov 08
When one door is closed another is open.
• United States
15 Nov 08
People like this bother me. They try to get what they want through manipulation. I doubt very seriously that the two of them would ever be happy together.
15 Nov 08
That is the stupid question ever made to me!!!!! OF course no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Not for anyone at all!!!!!
• India
15 Nov 08
no!