No family No pain No Burden

@sktekweb (277)
India
November 14, 2008 11:36am CST
I'll never marry in my life.No family, No pain , No attachment.No fear of future.
8 responses
• United States
15 Nov 08
Wow. The only thing that comes to my mind when you say that is, "How sad for you to exclude yourself from such a wonderful gift from God," and, "what had to have happened to you to make you think this way?!" There is pain and suffering in life no matter what path you choose so boxing yourself up and putting it on a shelf sure isn't going to sheild you from it. God meant for people to do life TOGETHER so I pray that your heart is healed and you come to see what joy there is in sharing yourself with others aside from the occasional pain. God Bless.
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@sktekweb (277)
• India
17 Nov 08
Healed with your discussion my dear.Good rated discussion.
• United States
15 Nov 08
Have you recently been hurt by someone? Not everybody is cut out for the family thing,which is fine but do you not want some type of happiniess in life?Being alone after awhile kinda feels lonley.Everyone has a certain someone out here meant for us,I hope you believe that.I can't help but wonder,you seem to be hurting inside just know that there are people out here that do have a heart and not everyone enjoys seeing someone hurting,I feel really sad for you cause you deserve to be happy and you deserve the best just like the next person!Good luck to you!
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@sktekweb (277)
• India
17 Nov 08
I came back to rate how you discuss.Welldone dear lilsammilib. Today I visit to rank some discussions only.No cents,no points.
@ersmommy1 (12600)
• United States
14 Nov 08
That seems very sad. Also very lonely. Yes the future can be scary. But it can also be wonderful. My husband and the family we are building give me most of the greatest joys in my life. So you may have no attachments. But you may be missing out on alot of happiness too.
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@sktekweb (277)
• India
17 Nov 08
ersmommy1, Very goooooooooood discussion.You understand life maturely. I put this topic to come back and rate your discussion.Today I have come to mylot to rank my friends only. I'm also married and the happiest.
• Germany
16 Nov 08
I have this similar thought before too, but now i have a family. :-) Sometimes it's hard, but it does give me many joys too. Well, family is only one form of attachment, if you still have other attachments, then you will still have pain. I wish you all the best in the life. Everything is gonna be alright. Cheers!
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@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
14 Nov 08
That's sad to see someone thinking like that. I honestly can not make any comments about this but I'm sure something has happened to you that's why you have thought about this. Whatever it is...I'll just hope that someday you'll change your mind.
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@sktekweb (277)
• India
17 Nov 08
I put this topic to know my lotters mind.However you are very kind and sympathetic.
• United States
21 Nov 08
Well, it's good to hear this was merely to spark a discussion, and a good one at that! God bless!
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I could never imagine not having a family. While it is scary to be responsible for someone else it is also exciting to have someone to take care of. I love the idea of taking care of someone else. I like being attached to my boyfriend and thinking about marrying him someday.
@myclique (116)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
the first thing that came to my mind when i saw this was - no one to take care of you when you're sick. even with a lot of money, you can't buy true affection and compassion.
@fmmik2x (17)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I may be single right now, but i'm looking forward to build my own family. I agree with you, it is scary, but that what makes life challenging. We will never know what will happen next. All we have to do is enjoy whatever we have and nothing can replace the memories and experiences that we will gain.