after marriag man realised,his wife is a flirt

ya thats tough you have 2 options you can work it out or divorce. divorce would be the easy but immature way to handle it. if they love eachother it will work out love conqures all. In my situation my gf happens to be a huge flirt i later find out that she never really had a dad and she is starving for attention so i giver her a break she has worked on it though. that may be your case? she may just need attention give it to her!! She needs it and will attach to you.

Tough situation. There is nothing you can do to end the marriage but one can try to get the marriage annuled. Other alternative is to fgive him or her so much love and satisfy all their needs that they do not need to look at ony ohter man or woman.

I couldnt stay long in that kind of relationship if it happens to me .If i found out that my husband is a womanizer ,i will try to ask him first whats going on and how can we fix that because he wasnt like that before we got married. Infidelity and betrayal are the factors a borken family and separation.But i will try hard to fix it first but if i realize that i cant stop him from doing it so then maybe i could just decide to live alone by myself and just give him up.That's the best i can do instead of making myself stupid out of my husband's foolishness. But fortunately,thats not my case. My husband love so much than i can imagine and he takes care of me as every girl wished for. So im really out of that problem..

I agree with the first posting, but my question would be "how did the person not know this while dating?" Blinders HAD to have been on.

Well, both partners if ever they are planning on getting married they should've first gotten to know more about their partners. That way they would know how their partner behave, or asked their close friends opinions about the ones that they're going to marry. However, I've seen and heard lots of instances when the person transofrm into someone completely different after marriage. The best move, I think, would be to talk to your partner about it, how you felt when he/she flirted and how the two of you could work it out. That way, both of you are aware that you have a problem and could work it all out.