Do you want to be a dragon lady or a woman behind your man?

@pzygtt (193)
China
November 18, 2008 2:19am CST
Now let's talk about something relaxed If you a woman,would you to be a dragon lady or a woman behind your man? About this topic,women have their own ideas: Point 1:To be a woman behind a man is good,but he must be a strong-minded man.The woman focuses on family while the man focuses on career. Point 2:Women should have their own space and should not totally rely on men,but to be solid backup force for men.Especially for a successful man,he should have a good woman at home. So,friends,if you are a woman,what role do you want to play before a man? If you are a man,what do you want your woman to be like?
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• India
18 Nov 08
A combination of both, I think. To run a succesful and happy family life, iis always wise o eact as per the situation. For example, if a husband wants a costly laptop which cannot fit into your budget, you have to be a dragon lady and state the facts clearly. However, if your ubby plans a weekendtrip to the in-laws, it is wise to be the woman behind your man.
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@pzygtt (193)
• China
18 Nov 08
Good idea! Agree with you! Keep in touch! Good luck to you!
@jammyt (2824)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I want to be somewhere in between. Like now, I support my husband in what he decides on yet I still voice out how I feel about certain issues first. At first, being the youngest in my family like my husband made it so hard for me to accept that I had to slow down and be submissive than before. I was used to getting things done my way. We fought a lot over it but eventually and little by little, I learned to be submissive enough to make my husband happy.
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