Mind Over Heart...Have You Really Been In Love?

Philippines
November 18, 2008 3:17am CST
A close friend of mine always say that your mind should always control your heart especially when it comes to falling in love. The funny thing is, when she started to fall in love, she lost her mind!!!LOL and she fell in love with somebody who is not in her "IDEAL" list...Hope she'll be happy being in love!!
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• India
18 Nov 08
Such are the strange ways of love. I fell in love with my hubby after our arranged marriage. We travelled to exotic destinations and wondered why we shied away from marriage.
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• Philippines
18 Nov 08
Oh...maybe because the marriage was just arranged and love wasn't there in the first place? Maybe, both of you need more time to explore each other, let love grow...
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@sivanj (1263)
• India
18 Nov 08
i have not been in love. but have been around with many of my friends having got married after love. In common circumstances it should be heart which decides about love. thats how God made us. we are driven by the attraction created in our heart. but in a person who is driven by certain circumstances then he/she may force the mind to control the heart. this will affect the decisions made during love also. But i don't call this love anymore. if you say that the person who has *** as qualifications and has *** as earnings is my best person to be my lover then you are wrong. it is not love it is arranged marriage - arranged by yourself. hope my response made some sense. happy mylotting.
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• Philippines
18 Nov 08
I got your point. You have a very good idea about how it is to be in love. You'll be a good lover in the near future.
@subha12 (18454)
• India
18 Nov 08
love actually knows no barrier. in real love mind does not act very efficiently. its come sin most unexpected way in life.
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• Philippines
18 Nov 08
You must be in love with being in love...so nice to hear a line like that.
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