Would you?

Jamaica
November 20, 2008 9:11am CST
Hello, I found myself in a little problem. I used to date this girl back then she was out of my life for quite some time only to find out she is my girlfriend best friend at the moment. She sometimes sleep over i am having problem whenever she is close to me cant keep my hands off her. Only deep down i know its wrong but i cant stop what would you do?
4 responses
• United States
20 Nov 08
This is a VERY bad situation. If I were you I would tell your girlfriend what's up. Let her know that you don't feel comfortable having your X over at your place, tell her what's happening and let her know that you don't want it to continue. That or ditch your girlfriend and go for this other girl. You can't have both and what you are doing now is TOTALLY UNCOOL. And what kind of a girl screws around with her best-friend's boyfriend anyway!?
• Jamaica
20 Nov 08
Thanks for your advice i really love my girlfriend i dont think i will tell her. So i guess i have to work it out another way. what would you do?
• United States
20 Nov 08
Tell her that you don't want your x over at your place and leave out the part about what happened already. Tell her that the x makes you uncomfortable (does your current g-friend even know that you used to date her friend?)if she does tell her that you don't want her over because you feel that boundaries aren't clear and you're afraid something will happen, if she doesn't know tell her at least that much. The point is that you CANNOT have this girl around-that's been made clear by both of your actions and if you really care about your gf you'll get that other girl out of your life
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I think you know what is right and wrong. You know that she's your gf bestfrind, your in trouble if you don't stop yourself. Sometimes there is nothing wrong avoiding temptations. If you respect your gf, and don't wanna hurt her, and you love her, you wont feel this way or treat her bestfriend like this. I think you have to think what you really like and want. Have a nice day to you! God bless!
• Jamaica
21 Nov 08
Thank you for your answer
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
I think you should avoid her. Let your best friend know the truth. Maybe he can help. You should not in any way broke the trust that your best friend has for you. In most cases, situation like this could break a friendship and I'm sure you don't want to lost yours.
• United States
20 Nov 08
yah tell your girlfriend because this could cause problems and you guys could break up.if your ex didnt make it to your future theres a reason.stick with what you have.she obviousley isnt a good friend to your girlfriend if she acts like that around you and is comfortable being around you.maybe thats the only reason shes friends with her anyways? i wouldnt trust her and you need to stop hanging with her before your girlfriend leaves you.its happened to me and it sucks.