My girlfriend thinks I have crossed the line in one of my discussions !!

@ronnyb (6120)
Jamaica
November 21, 2008 7:44am CST
Do you sometimes write discussions of a personal nature,well I have from time to time and now I may have gotten myself in trouble.I will have to convince my girl that my intentions werent meant to be cruel,I was just trying to get another perspective on an issue.The discussion in particular is "My girl says I can have other women".She says this was a personal issue ,that we should have discussed at length but it shouldnt have left our personal space. I see her point however I felt maybe I should have gotten another perspective on the issue since mine was probably short sighted.I didnt know she would have a problem with it since she was so expressive of her views.It seems maybe she was just testing me as many persons suggested. I am planning to self sensor so as not offend her in the future.Several good things did come out of it as I learned not to take everything she says at face value.From now on she will be careful what she says to me since she now knows the audience may be global.Finally I did receive a lot of positive advice. PSS she is gonna watch me like a hawk now,everytime I go on mylot - so who knows maybe she will sign on and things I now say may end up in discussions and I am no angel either -so look out for that.lol.
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@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 08
Well... my partner never know anything about what I have written here at myLot. Since I didn't really bring my personal life to the virtual life, I didn't think that she would be mad at me like that. I am not going to be happy as well, if people all around the world know what's going on between me and my partner. There are some stuff that is so much better to be kept alone than to be share. Talking about something personal is sometimes really bothering for some people. Especially when it is shared with strangers. We are all strangers here in myLot, right? Even actually she doesn't have to be so angry about that, and she doesn't have to be worry about that, because we are all anonymous at this place.
@ronnyb (6120)
• Jamaica
21 Nov 08
a very balanced view ,I was also looking at it from the anonymity standpoint
@klaudine (3652)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 08
You're welcome, just trying to give an objective opinion about things, and I am so happy that that could help you a little in reducing your girlfriend's anger :) good luck :)