Where you spend time when you are broken heart?

@miamhae (339)
Philippines
November 23, 2008 12:15am CST
When I'm broken heart or even have a struggle in life, I wanted to be in my best friends, because i can talk with them all the pain inside my heart. I know my family understand me if I open talk with them, but the problem is, i receive first their little angry concern why its happen then follow the comfort. But I just talk in my best friend that i knew she's trusted and don't have a long tongue. I don't want to be alone if my heart broken, its make me feel much worst and lonely. I know every body experience how being broken heart or has experience a struggle in life, in that time; When you spend your time? Family, friends, alone or Go to a disco or party every night?
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@annierose (18145)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
When I am broken hearted, I prefer to be alone first and cry.I want to be alone for meanwhile because I am some kind of an introvert person.After a few days then, that will be the time I will prefer to hang out with friends and to socialize with other people.Meeting new acquaintances help me to somehow forgot the cause of my sadness.I enjoy being with friends and new acquaintances.Most of the time, I would avoid being alone because it just reminds me of the cause of my pain.I focus myself on things that I know can make me happy. Aside from that, I keep on praying to God that He may help me to get out of my unhappy experience and be able to move on.
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@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I avoid too to being alone like you when I'm broken heart and avoid to saw the things that he give it to me. Thanks we all need to stay strong, struggle are only way to test how strong we are. have a good day
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Well I go to church alone. I ask God to give me strength and will to go on. I ask God also not to make me bitter, Help me with the pains and hurts in my heart. Help me to carry on. And help me to forgive. When I was heart broken before I just wanna be alone and make myself busy also. I don't wanna think about it anymore. I just have to go on. I don't wanna talk about it anymore. Love and life is a journey! God be with you always!
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@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
Yes, God who the only one can give us the strenght we need, I do also go in church when I have struggle in life, then I go in my friend house to share what happen. Thanks have a nice day!
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
well i just stayed at my room and listening to love songs i really like. I don't know but it gave me so much relief.
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@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
You are music lover I guess that's why music make in you as a self meditation. Thanks have a fruity day!
@Kumaresan (450)
• Malaysia
23 Nov 08
hello friend... well, when i feel heart broken, i won't share to anyone else because i'm quite reserve type... i won't talk to anyone and like to keep quite all the time... because i was grown like and also i like doing it... but nowadays, i can't keep it into myself... the pressure is so intense that made me to cry totally burst myself... i think now i can't keep the feelings into myself anymore so now i'm sharing my feelings to my friends, a trusted friends of course... i think to forget it, you can do is listen to your favorite music, talk to your best friend, spend all night long sitting in front of tv or just go eat your favorite food out... this might reduce your stress...
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@efarmer (184)
24 Nov 08
I would like to be left alone for a while. I tend to heal myself quickly I would cry and it would all be out and over. Although I would also like to be with my husband for a while because he soothes me well
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@athlon24 (106)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
For me, I spend time alone for a while and when the reality of the pain already got into my head, I think new things to do. It is very hard to get past in the pain if all you think are the things the you did together before. What i do is to focus on some other things that can wipe away the pain. Be busy and be busy for new things or other things that has no connection to the one who broke my heart. Corny, but true. :D
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• Philippines
24 Nov 08
usually when I'm sad and I want to be alone I go to the forest or near the seashore.. or at night I watch the stars.. they always somehow remind me that everyday these problems where just challenges that we have to face and thinking that God is always with me.. I can make it
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
24 Nov 08
I am a person who like sto be alone at that time. it helps m eto calm down. when i can spend time with myself, its good for me. i can retrospect and think what went wrong
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• China
24 Nov 08
I will go to my firend's home !
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@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
24 Nov 08
I would rather be alone first than be with somebody else. I would be evaluating myself, what happened, then from there, i would have my plans and get up and say, "its not yert the end of the world ". I need to move on and re start my life without the person.
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@silverjam (969)
• United States
23 Nov 08
Like you I usually spend time in my bests friends' place for couple of days or so whenever am broken hearted. Its very normal to find one's self confiding mostly to friends than w/ their families. Friends understands more and can listen w/o being judgemental. Its normal likewise for families to comment or get upset w/ the bad things happening on you because they are the ones that can be affected too hence the anger and scolding at times. I also engaged in chatting and emailing w/ my friends online when am feeling down. Its like confessing to them and soliciting their opin ions as well. Likewise, spending time to be alone helps me to meditate contimplate things.
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• United States
23 Nov 08
Well i spend my time with lol the television, internet friends, family and i just like to do the thing's that i just do it occasionally. Have a nice day and see you ;). Bye
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@metschica25 (5407)
• United States
23 Nov 08
HI , Usually if I talk to my bestie it does help . I do however need some sulking time and alone time . I usually will lock myself in the room and cry my heart out . I also like to hide under my covers . It is good to have support in life and a safe place . My fiance is my rock but sometimes stress with money is so high
@gracie04 (4554)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
I usually want to be alone.. you know, i don't want other people to see me crying most especially my family.. i stay here in my condo and let my tears fall down.. i don't want to keep the pain by pretending to feel okay..
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@mengrufa (239)
• China
23 Nov 08
For me, when i feel sad, i don't want any one to stay with me, i just want to stay at home or stay at a certain place alone, thinking that what i have done, why i am in sadness. Some one may be worried about me when i stay alone, but i am sure that i don't do any silly things. What i really want to do is sit quietly and think things that happened and go between the rights and wrongs.
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@adapots (82)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Hmmmm i think most of the time i feel broken hearted of everyting in this world especially if we talk about my family i feel hurt and i feel also that i hurt him so feeling guilty. and most of my young age im happy of my life coz i feel that i am pressed i mean feeling i am inside a circle that no side to go. what i do! i talk to my self infront of a mirror ALONE that no one can see me. and there i cried and cried! then afte that i feel ok. im a kind of person that i dont like to share of what i feel coz i dont want to bother them or they have a problem bcoz of me. but im willing to listen of their problem and give my advice if they need. I solve my problem ALONE as long as i can. but finalcial problem i ask my brother to help me!!!!1 lol
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@Gwapako_28 (2142)
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
Well, me i spend time when i am broken heart in the computer. I chat then sometimes, i went out alone and drink some. I also love to stay inside my room.
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
When i feel broken heart I usually go tot the mall and facinate my eyes there. Somtimes I got to see a movie by myself and eat a lot popcorns
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• China
23 Nov 08
when i break my heart, i tend not talk to anyone, if so, i will feel more sad. not listen music, but in case sad music make you sad more, not eat good food, because no apetite, but i can make me recover soon. i sleep, through sleep, spirit recover , and forget pain, it is a really good way.
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• Philippines
23 Nov 08
I'm an emotional kind of individual. Most of the time that I feel that my heart was so broken, I listen to music. This is my way of releasing the pain that I am going through. When I listen to all the my favorite love songs, I even cry, I let all the pains would come out so that the next day I wake up, I will feel better.
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