cheated or insulted by your friend whom you think is your best friend...

India
November 24, 2008 6:08am CST
what do you say friend do you ever face such type of situation in which you have cheated by you friend whom you think is your best friend.... I have cheated by one of my friend whom I was think that he is one mine best friend but he never understand me and always tried to cheat me and when I left his friend ship now he want to talk me again but now I have lost my faith on that friend that why I don't want to talk him again what do you say friends ....
4 responses
@kedves (728)
24 Nov 08
if they are that good a friend you should be able to sit down and tell them the truth about how you feel or how they made you feel. a good friend will listen and will understand or accept your point of view. it does not mean they have to agree with it because you being a good friend will also accept their point of view and be able to sort out any problems you may have. so first decide if that person really was your best friend then decide whether you wish to sort it out then go for it. and good luck :)
• India
24 Nov 08
yes friend I have tried to understand him 3 times but he never want to understand he don't agree with the concept to compromise, I warn him many time but he was in his mind of state that he never listen to me so finally I have to leave him btw thanks for your suggestion ...
@kedves (728)
25 Nov 08
some people just can not change or can not be helped.. maybe its time to either accept them as they are or to move on. you seem a nice person may i suggest you move on and find a better friend :)
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
24 Nov 08
Hi friend,When we have good understanding between friends then even if they insult us I wont mind it much as each and everyone have our busy schedule and even without his own knowledge he would have behaved so.So if we think that person to be a good friend we need to talk and know the reason for that kind of behaviour.If the reason is reasonable we are happy ,if he had done this purposely and if he is a true friend he must certainly feel guilty for his behaviour when we talk to him.By doing so we can find out who is true and who is not true. thanks for sharing.happy mylotting.
• India
24 Nov 08
yeah friend I agree with you, friend ship was not balanced from both of side means its was only me who thought that he is my one of my best friend but he was not thinking so , and even though I gave him many changces and warn him about his nature but he always ignored me anout my thoughts and I always depressed from it and finally in a incident I had to left him and after that incident he felt hi guilty but after that i don't want any friendship with him , thats all for me and thanks for your suggestion ,
@jlamela (4909)
• Philippines
10 Sep 09
It already happens to me lately. I always thought that this guy is my best friend and even cater all his needs because he always seek my assistance and help if there's something he wanted to accomplish but could not make it because of his hectic schedule, as a loyal and affectionate friend I always help him. But I am incensed with his strange actions, every time I want something from him or let us say I need help from him, he would deliberately turn me down, he would refused my little favor and would virtually snob me every time we met. I was wondering what happen to this person, but then if there's something he needed he will ask my help and assistance. Right now I want to avoid him for good because it feels that he is exploiting me, he is just using me for his advantage but never really considered me as his true friend. When I realized this some three days ago, it really felt bad that I cried the whole night, my chest was in pain and all I could do was ask God for help. It seems my mind was spinning and all my body was aching. But then I couldn't deny myself that he is very special and I want to take extra care for him but then, the payback is very painful that I decided to discard all my notion of taking care of him.
@LadyMarissa (12165)
• United States
24 Nov 08
How can you consider him to be your best friends when you say but he never understand me and always tried to cheat me . That is NOT a best friend. That is a friend who uses your friendship to get what he wants. Have you been expecting more out of him than he has to give??? Maybe you need to accept him just for what he is...a casual friend...NOT a "best" friend. If he's any kind of friend at all, you should be able to tell him exactly how you feel & he'll understand. Sometimes we just have to face that the people we choose to be our friends don't always feel the same way. Good luck with this friendship. I hope it works out the way you want it to!!!