i miss my daughter

United States
November 24, 2008 6:09pm CST
i can finally say i miss my daughter after 25 years of guilt for leaving her with her dad. i can finally say i miss her so much and want her near me so bad .she lives thousands of miles away and it is hard for me to go to her i have three small children that are the same age and i dont know if i can aford for us all to go and see her .however my boys and husband now do not get along very well togeather after 2 hours they are fighting togeather what can i do to make this work for all of us?
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@hildas (3031)
25 Nov 08
Could you go by yourself for a few days to see her. I know leaving small children is very hard to do though. I have four daughters, two have moved out and I miss them so much too. Could you offer the fare to your daughter to come and see you. Maybe this would work better. I really hope you sort something out and get to see her soon. I wish you luck and take care deedeehall.
• United States
25 Nov 08
gosh i wish i could offer fair to her .she has three children that i have never seen.one is only 4 months old.i have triplets that are 6 years old and i am afraid to leave them with there father in fear that they will not get along. i really want to see her.where is opra when we need her?ha ha i have not seen my daughter for 25 years we both really need this.
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@laydee (12818)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
Well, you could start by doing it online. Maybe you could opt for other ways of communication. I'm sure she has anger toward you too for leaving her. It won't be easy to meet with someone who left you for so long. Regardless what they say, there will always be a mark of anger for those who leave. Doing it through phonecalls or perhaps online would ease the pain slowly while getting to know each other more. Sooner or later when time and money allows it, then perhaps you could meet. But for now, communicating with her would help her know you more and vice versa. Good luck! [i] Understanding health concerns shouldn't be confusing, for more information log in to http://www.diagnoseurillness.com[/i]
@hildas (3031)
25 Nov 08
I really hope you get to see her. I think your husband might surprise you in looking after the triplets. Your hands are full with three 6 year olds. I wish you the best and I hope you get to see her again.
@srbollar (259)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Have you started talking to your daughter again? Even if you can't visit her, you should try calling her regularly- whether it's every day or once a week. Is there any way she can come to visit you?
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