I lost of friend here at myLot and I miss them!! :(

@makingpots (11928)
United States
November 24, 2008 8:56pm CST
Ok, we were not super close, but I adored seeing them here and receiving kind responses once in a while. One day I was removed from their friend list and I was a little heart broken. If they will ever forgive me, I hope that they do soon, because I miss them. Have you lost a myLot friend? Did they ever take you back as a friend?
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@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
25 Nov 08
Hi Pot i wonder who have nerves to delete u from their Friends list, but if they did, i wonder why u want to be there again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well, i never knew if some one deleted me from their list, i wonder if u get notification if some one delleted u from their list???? However if u miss them, i hope they will be reading it and add u again Wish u all the Best Take care
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Hi cupid. Good question. The answer is, I don't care if I'm on their friend list so much as I miss their occasional kind responses. No, you don't get notification if someone deletes you from their list. I'm glad your on my friend list.
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@cupid74 (11397)
• Pakistan
26 Nov 08
Hi Pot thanks for response u know what, we always want to have feeling of missing so we found a way to have this feeling and some times we are so much used to of something, some object that we only know when its not around and we miss it, it may be some Sign borad on our way And hey, also glad to have u in friends list and appreciate ur kind responses Take care
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
Hi, cupid. I just don't like to lose contact with friends, but sometimes it is necessary and we can't do anything about it. Wow, this was you 4000th post. Keep up the good work.
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• United States
25 Nov 08
I have never noticed if I have been deleted as friend. I do sometimes notice if after a few weeks if one one my friends have not been around much but they have just not logged in for a while. I do not PM too many of the people on my friends list so I honestly would not notice if they had deleted me and if they had then they must have had their reasons and that would be fine with me.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
I'm going to work on no longer noticing such things. Good point, their reasons should just be fine with me.
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• United States
25 Nov 08
i dont think so since i havent noticed it but i have a lot of friends so if i did they must not have been a good enough friend that i interacted with to remember them
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Hi, moonlitmagikchild. I wish I didn't notice such things around here. Going to try to focus on just the interaction.
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@neededhope (1086)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Well I haven't dealt with this yet. But I must say that it maybe because you didn't response to there threads or rather discussions. But if you did than I dont' understand why they deleted you off there list. All i can say is don't be sad and just not worry about them. And enjoy making new friends and learning other new and different things on mylot. There's so many different topics you can never get bored or even not have enough friends. So don't worry about it and have some fun mylotting!
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
What a very positive response. Thanks, neededhope. You are so right.
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@winterose (39931)
• Canada
25 Nov 08
no not anyone I was particularly close to removed me, but I did lose friends who just do not come back here anymore though.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Yes, I lose friends like that all the time. I could lose more if I would clean out my list of inactives. But now I worry about someone noticing if i remove them.
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@nanajanet (4437)
• United States
25 Nov 08
I don't really know. I do not keep that close enough attention to who is my friend or not. Ones who post a lot, like you, I would probably miss, but I have not lost anyone like that and I never check.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
I should not check either. I am far too sensitive for that. Or maybe I've just been here too long, I notice when something seems askew.
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@skysuccess (8882)
• Singapore
26 Nov 08
makingpots, First of all, are they still active members still? I suppose they will be automatically removed if they are no longer in myLot. The next thing I could think would happen is they might have accidentally removed you instead of someone else. So, in all, just don't be so mindful and I am sure they would come to a realization of their error one day. I am sure of it. Take care.
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
I'll definitely work on not being so mindful. That seems to be the best answer for me.
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• Singapore
26 Nov 08
makingpots, Lest you think less, I am still a friend here for you too. Have a nice day ahead. Cheers.
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
28 Nov 08
Thanks, skysuccess. I am happy to have you as a friend.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
26 Nov 08
i can understand your feelings.even i would feel low but something good will turn out from it.happy mylotting.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
That is such a good attitude, riyasam. You are right, something good always seems to come out of the bad.
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@riyasam (16582)
• India
26 Nov 08
i am also missing a good friend of mine.we used to speak on phone daily.it has been temporarily discontinued due to some mis understanding.
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• United States
26 Nov 08
I can imagine how that must feel. hopeless? loseing any type of connection with a good friend hurts. have you messaged them? I hope all works out for you. :]
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
Hi, afallchild. Welcome to myLot. You know? I guess it wasn't really a good friend, just someone I enjoyed interaction with. Hee, obviously I enjoyed it more than them.
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Not that I know of....I have friends that have dropped out..and once in a while show up again but no one that I know that has deleted me.....Hope you work it out!
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
I have some drop outs too that I just can't 'clean out' of my friend list just in case they come back.
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• United States
25 Nov 08
It may have been an accident. I was going thru my friend list a couple of weeks ago and found about 50 who were no longer active (over 6 months) so I deleted them all. I accidentally deleted one, misread it as a similar name and didn't catch it until they sent me another add request. I felt bad but explained that it was an accident and now we're buddies again. Hopefully that's all it was in your situation.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
That does seem to happen around here from time to time, craftcatcher.
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@Shar19 (8236)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Luckily I haven't had that happen.....yet.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
26 Nov 08
You are lucky.
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@subha12 (18463)
• India
25 Nov 08
i do not remember. it may be some has deleted me from list. I have not noticed that. I do not know why they have deleted you.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
I will try to stop noticing such things.
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@williamjisir (22909)
• China
25 Nov 08
Hello makingpots. I am sorry that you had such an experience to get removed from their friend list. But I am happy to tell you that you will always be on my friend list because like you I also miss my friends on my friend list in the hope that they appear as often as possible at Mylot. Take care, friend.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
Thanks, friend. I'm proud to be on your friend list!
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• India
25 Nov 08
aww that sux
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
aww not so bad. just a little sad.
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• Philippines
25 Nov 08
Sorry to hear that, I don't understand why does he has to remove you in his friends list, you can reconcile though with this person by maybe sending him/her a message somewhere, pm maybe. No worries anyway, there are a lot of us here to be your friend, count me one as well.
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@makingpots (11928)
• United States
25 Nov 08
What a very nice thing to say, my friend.
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@sweetie1026 (1724)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
I know how you feel and i understand. It has happened to me but not here on mylot. It was on another site, i know this friend deliberately deleted me. I was a little heart broken because i really wanted to make friends and not lose them. I don't know the reasons behind it but i am glad that i left that site and came here to mylot because friends here are much friendlier and i enjoy the interaction.Thanks.
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
28 Nov 08
I'm glad you like it around here, sweetie1026. I'm also glad we are friends. I look forward to interacting with you.
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• Philippines
28 Nov 08
Thank you, my friend. I am glad too!
@p1kef1sh (45647)
2 Dec 08
To my knowledge only one person has ever deliberately removed me. She decided that she didn't like me anymore and that was that. I have had many friends leave the site, sometimes saying that they'll be back, but then disappearing. My closest myLot friends, both current and past, I have E mail addresses for, and usually communicate with them at least every couple of weeks or so. I talk to one on Skype webcam daily, others weekly, IM and the telephone. I have their home addresses too so if all else fails I can always go and find them! I have one friend who I don't see any longer and I very much regret that. She went off to write reviews of bacon and hairdryers. I've half-heartedly looked but not found her, and I would hate for her to think me a stalker!
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
3 Dec 08
Bacon and hairdryer reviews, eh? Dare I ask? I can't imagine anyone deciding they didn't like you anymore, p1ke!
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@SaintAnne (5454)
• United States
2 Dec 08
Yes. And it does feel like a letdown. I mean, I haven't met her but we were exchanging replies after the other. I think she got disillusioned with myLot and certain discussions and just went AWOL on everyone. Last time I check, she hasn't been to myLot for a month or so now.
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I just got in contact with mine. She became disillusioned with myLot too. Seems people were being mean to her. I haven't been a very good friend to her or a would have known it. She is someone who has been around a long time too. I don't understand why people have to be mean.
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@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
28 Nov 08
maybe this friend does not know you were removed from there friend list .is there any way you can send a message out there to try and find them?i am sure they would want you back as a friend. is there some thing we can do to help you find them?
@makingpots (11928)
• United States
29 Nov 08
That was exactly the case. I found them and have learned what is up with them and why I have not been hearing from them. Still miss them very much...... and they know now that when they return to myLot I want back on their list!
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