how do you heal a broken heart?

@raclie (1734)
Singapore
November 28, 2008 1:42am CST
when you know that you and your love will never be together again, that seeing old photos, watching old videos and seeing the very room that he slept in. watching movies and being reminded in the same room where you played? the table where you had your meals together, the church where you go with him every week, the long bus rides where he laid your head to sleep. the lost christmas where you will not be able to see his face light up with delight of the presents you gave, the warm, protective feeling you have when you see someone tease him, the smell of his hair, the healthy smell of sweat, the wonderful look on his face when he is holding a pet. HOW CAN YOU FACE THE HOUSE WHERE YOU SPENT SO MUCH TIME TOGETHER?!?!?!?
4 responses
• China
28 Nov 08
I will go out to travel,and in fact,i do.i always think,the purpose of tour is searching something which i lost,as happy, belief and so on. so,when i finish my tour,and face the house again, i will feel less sad, because my broken heart is healing slowly in the tour. make yourself happy,anyway,life is continuing
• China
28 Nov 08
I have to say your words make me feel a lot.Once I like travel but sometimes I am sick of travel,and now I do want to travel again.I don't know why,but your words give me a light.
• China
29 Nov 08
Yeah,Hope u can find sth.which you lost!be happy in life,and all friends also are the happy source in one's life.
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
1 Dec 08
No, never. After about one and a half year, i still can't. We didn't live together, didn't spend time under the same roof, i still can't let alone living together. Tell me if you have a good solution.
@joy4you (641)
• India
29 Nov 08
You are very close to the answer yourself, the best way to heal your broken heart and move on is to remove from your life all the things that remind you of your past relationship. Even after that it will take some time for your mind to get used to it so the sooner you do it the better. Best of luck if you are in such a situation.
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
Its hard really hard, i know the feeling because I've been to this kind of situation before, and i took one year for me to move on, until i realize to set my self free from the bars of the fast, what i did is, i avoid those place that we've been there, i leave the house, i go to others places, keep her belongings and gifts in a box and put it the storage room, i remove all the things that reminded me of her. I most go on with my life without her. Life must go on, though is painful and so sad that she no longer part of my dreams still i must be strong. I just wish that she happy on she doing right now.