Regretted for getting back..

India
November 28, 2008 6:35am CST
Misunderstandings are common in every relationship,but then I have personally felt that when we fight we get to know each other more and how much they value us. I had a good friend we had a small misunderstanding but then I din't have the heart to let go off the relationship just like that so I got back to her after a month. But then a few weeks later I came to know that she's spoken ill of me to my friends when we were in fight. Was totally shattered when my friends said that. Still,I din't belive I went and asked,she said yes I did and I was not wrong. I regretted that day for having got back to her,but then I valued her. I felt so ditched. U have any such experience?Have u regretted for having got back to any such relationship??
3 responses
• India
29 Nov 08
they who call themself as a friend should not talk about their bud behind their back..beside is inappropriate..,it’s also very unbelievable to do.. moreover.. a enemy is better than to have these likje friends.. in my life, i am much and much defeated by friends, who later turned as traitors to me.. but i thank those guys for giving me a damage, which made me to learn lessons. Still i expect true relations for me.. but i belive nearly 3 persons are there for me to care.. but they are 500+ kms away from me.. it will be always good, if we have atleast one true friend with us always. it helps us to keep our mind fresh doing fun things & also it helps in reaching our aims fast. & we can always have in mind that there is always one person is there for our support! have a nice time!
• India
29 Nov 08
Yes.. I also have few true loving souls living for me
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
28 Nov 08
Sometimes- something like ignoring people for a month- could p*ss them off more then you think. Whenever i have an argument with my partner, i do indeed ignore him, so i can calm down. However 9 times out of 10 he'll sit there in silence, and the silence annoys me more then anything in the world. Then i seem to get angrier- he doesn't seem to get why the silence annoys me, and i can't really explain it either, i just hate the way i know he's thinking about the situation and just sitting there doing nothing. If you have an argument, you're likely to go foul mouth someone off, especially when after a week they still haven't contacted you. Generally you foul mouth them on the same day if it was a really bad argument, but if you're one of them people that want to wait until you get back to them, they'll only wait so long. Make sense?
• India
28 Nov 08
Hmmmm yes. But then seriously I din't go wrong. The mistake was on her part. Every time I go for compromises. Anyways thanks for responding!!
@arunmails (3013)
• India
30 Nov 08
Misunderstanding is happening not only with in the friends, but also in every relationships....... even I had a small quarrel between me and my friend, it takes for about 3 days to solve that problem.......