arrange marriage or love marriage

India
November 28, 2008 5:32pm CST
if u r a single i would like to ask which is life is best suited for u whether love or arrange marriage life .so hopezzzzz we see in this discussionnnnnnn
5 responses
• Nigeria
28 Nov 08
I think i prefer the love marriage.This is because having known my partner and bieng in love with him to the extent of sharing my life with him,i have accepted to live with his strengths as well as weaknesses.i would be willin to endure the worst because i love him.A love marriage is built on love and trust and not on family grounds as in the arranged marriage.Thanks
• India
29 Nov 08
yes i agree with all ur points tht u suggested but instead u cant go with ur weaknesses but u can changed partners weakness to strengths at the same time the love marriages lifes go on good .as the same time arrange marriage is based on the grounds of the people sometimes the partners can be gooood and also bada toooooo.its not compulsion the person is not for the first time itself u dona choose .u can understand him and u can choooose ur partner...........thanx for validating the points.happy mylottng!!!!!!!!
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
28 Nov 08
It's definitely a love marriage for me. but the concept of "arrange marriage" was also considered, provided that i can choose a responsible individual belonging to the same group/religion/belief. That's the core of arrange marriage for me. But choosing that certain individual, heart and mind work hand in hand. And choosing : the one" is an individual's choice, not a choice of others for that person
• India
29 Nov 08
This is definitely true on the concept of the arrange marriage.He or she will choose on the basis of the individual likes or dislikes.the fact of love marriages are not withstand with the arranga marriages .mostly love marriages are going on well with their relationship but if some time breaks then its a lost of love and life ......thnx for validating the points
@tanflora (25)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 08
I'm still single at the moment and couldn't find a lover. I do not know what happen to me, seems like nobody is interested on me. Don't mind arrange marriage if the he is a responsible and caring guy.
• India
29 Nov 08
I am a single living with my family. i have no lover at all. but i have like love and arranged marriage. i dont like pure arranged marriage.
• India
29 Nov 08
it doesnt matter if it is an arranged or love marriage.it is the matter of how u live together in happinness and sadness. actually marriage is pledge to live together and not to follow the method how we use tissue papers.