The most confusing question of LIFE..

India
November 30, 2008 1:52am CST
I have always had bad experiences with many girls when it comes to friendship. The most confusing question for me has been "What do girls want"?? Please give me details
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@coolmailraj (2460)
• India
30 Nov 08
Yes this one is confusing for sure. But I think even more confusing is - "I Love you". I know it is not a question but then you can't say that it is not a question at all. Weird situation!
• India
30 Nov 08
i did not get you at all. :) an you please elaborate?
@sachinkr9 (140)
• India
30 Nov 08
Hi preetam Even I have some bed experiences with my girls firends too some time I am not even find the answer, but what i understand which will i guess helps is to, be ture, not over force your girl friend, and try to be positive with her. best of luck.
@shefalis (81)
• India
30 Nov 08
Cofusing..uumm. How about thinking what do you want? Girls want a lot of things in life. Infact what you give is always less. It is applicable to both girls and boys. People like to dominate others and it depends on you how much are you willing to stoop for pleasing the person. Everyone likes to show they want someone to take care of but in reality everyone wants to take control of the other. It would be good to understand to meet half way through. Maybe till now you have made choices where you got carried away with girls and not realising maybe the compatibility is low on charts. U decide the kind of girl you would want and then pursue someone. Everyone wants to hang out with the best but the maybe you are not the best for them. The options available are so many. The meaning of the word committment only few follow,be it a guy or a girl. So don't lose heart. Think for and about yourself
• United States
30 Nov 08
Girls are weird. I know for me, in a guy I've always looked for : 1. Honesty, because if she can't trust you then she'll probably be really annoying and have to know what you're doing at all times.. I trust my boyfriend now more than anything, and I don't need to know what he's doing. 2. FRIENDSHIP! If you're not friends with the girl, then the relationship will NOT last. Do you think people that are married for 50+ years are just attracted to each other!? No! If you're not friends, then it will fall apart one day. 3. Attraction is nice, but if you're not attracted to her personality more than her looks, you might as well give up. 4. Kind and caring. Show her that you care for her. Open the door for her, tell her she's beautiful. Go out of your way to make her smile, because she'll never forget it. 5. Fun to be around. You've got to keep each other's interest. If you're boring to her, she won't stay around for long. This one kind of goes along with number 2! Girls want a guy that will go out of his way just to make her happy. Girls want to be told that they're beautiful, and that they're like no others. More than anything, if the girl's looking for a true relationship, she wants a friend. Good luck. :)