why mothers are always so annoyings???

@marwen (52)
United States
November 30, 2008 3:04am CST
hi.i really have a huge problems with my mother.she always misunderstand me and don't accept me for who i am.she also what me to be the student she never was and she force me to do things that i'm not even intersested in..i'm on the verge of breakdown and i just can't stand this situation..any suggestions?
3 responses
@spalladino (17926)
• United States
30 Nov 08
Your mother wants you to be a good student because she knows that you can't get anywhere in life without a good education and marketable skills. It may come across as nagging to you, but she cares or she wouldn't bother. You should be finished with school soon and then you will be able to make your own decisions but, for now, listen to what your mom has to say...it will cause less friction between the two of you and she might just be right. Ask yourself where you want to be in life in another ten years and then figure out how to get there. You're at an age where daughters often bump heads with their mothers. You're part woman and part child and your mother is not ready to let go of the child part yet.
@marwen (52)
• United States
2 Dec 08
hi.i think you are right my motherwants the best for me..don't all mother want that?i will try to support that.thx
@ralphido (843)
• India
2 Dec 08
well. you can never fully understand a mother unless you become one. Don't you understand why she forces her will on you? Its because she doesn't want you to end up like her - A 'nobody' who couldn't even understand her own child's feelings, foolishly trying to give her child a good education so that he could have things that she couldn't get when she was young, so that her child could give his children everything she couldn't give his child, make him/her be able to stand up on their own feet. My Dear, one day you will be filled with so much regret over what you said you'd wish you'd be eaten up by the earth then and there.
@judinbo (312)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 08
not all mothers are so annoyings..if they are like this, its mean they are so love us..they want to care us..so i hope you can be patient in this situation..if can, you must slow talk with her..and tell briefly to her..