Why Do Some Men Can be This Stup*d???!!
By mjmlagat
@mjmlagat (3170)
Philippines
November 30, 2008 8:37am CST
I just can't help but share to you a terrible situation of a close friend who happened to be left behind by her very irresponsible husband. I love my friend and I really pity her because she is so kind and generous and never deserve to experience such hell!
When her first child was just 2 years old and she got pregnant again for her 2nd, her hubby who worked as a hotel manager of a three-star hotel, suddendly got missing-in-action in their marriage..well at first, he managed to send them money but never regularly. My friend who was still very pregnant at that time was already suspicious about the "activities" of her hubby that she decided to go to his workplace and investigate things herself. Eventually, her suspicions were confirmed: he was having an afdaikr with one of his subbordinates there--the saddest part of all: he declared himself single.
To shorten a very long and sad story of my friend, she gave birth to a healthy and handsome baby boy (he is now a mentally gifted 14 years old)--his father has not even seen him ever! The stup*d hubby of my friend evade court litigation on parental support and flew to Dubai with the other girl. We learned later that he got very ill (maybe Karma?)...
My good friend continue to raise her two teens with the best she could ever do and I'm so proud of her.
Have you ever wondered whay some men can be this stup*d?!
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7 responses
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
30 Nov 08
I wonder it all of the time. My son's father only sees him about once a year and even then it is only for about an hour. He rarely pays the court ordered child support and never even calls to see how he is doing. My son is almost 9 years old and while he can get on my nerves sometimes, he is a great kid.
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@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
I think that there are some men who are not man enough to handle their responsibilities. That's a fact of life that your friend has to face. It's good for her that she has two kids that she can be proud of.. Godless you friend...
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Most men, not all men, but most of them can be real jerks. Some of my friends and my niece have all been with stupid men. The reason that most men are like this is because they have not been raised right, or because they are just naturally that way best thing for men like this, put those men in their place.
@kellyjeanne (1576)
• United States
4 Dec 08
I believe one reason men are the way they are because they know that women have kind, big and soft hearts. At least for the most part. Of course, there are the exceptions.
Purrs,
Catwoman=^..^= & Mija
@BigBadWolf_aus (140)
• Australia
30 Nov 08
Let's face it, SOME women can also be this stup*d. I have a male friend who is a single father, and he raises his 15 years old twin sons. The mother of his twins eloped with a rich Arabian guy in Saudi Arabia and never heard from her since. The kids never met their mother, she left them while they were still babies. Irresponsible single parents who are cheating applies to both genders. I would wanna ask why some women can be this stup*d, not just some men who are capable of doing it the other way around.
Thanks fo the response!
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
30 Nov 08
Your friend sounds like a wonderful person. She has successfully raised her children in a loving home, even if it is only one parent. It certainly sounds like the father got his just rewards, I hope that if he's still living that at some point he will feel regret.
Unfortunately, a parent skipping out on responsibility is not limited to men. Many woman also leave or do something stupid to ruin the relationship. It's sad when children do not have the benefit of two parents. But, perhaps in these situations it's better to be raised in a loving one-parent home, than an unhappy two-parent one.
I raised my son alone too, his father having left. I guess he found it too difficult to be a kid himself and a father too. When my son was 18, he received a letter from his dad, asking to 'get together, and let bygones by bygones'. My son threw the letter right into the trash, and to this day has not wanted to see his father. Any regret for his actions that his dad feels are his to own. He bought and paid for them with his own stupidity.
