How many girlfriend or boyfriend you had before your marriage?

@nimnim74 (251)
Philippines
November 30, 2008 5:39pm CST
I am just a little curious if what's the average number of girlfriend or boyfriend (as sort of survey) you had before you got married and can you say you loved them all? I am just wandering because I've heard stories that they used to have more than 10 relationships before their wife or husband.
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@chiaeugene (2226)
• China
1 Dec 08
i have about 6-7 gfs bf my 1st marriage and about another 3 gfs in between my 1st and 2nd marriage. I would say i love most of them except my 1st gf who was a nightmare. haha. most says puppy love or 1st love is the sweetest but not for me. it was a nightmare and i could not wait to get out of it and was happy when the relationship went off. i have feelings for all my gfs and they have for me too. i am still in contact with some of them and ocassionally we would come out for dinner or coffee to catch up and find out how each other are doing but nothing more than that. we are good friends and i like it cos i realised that it was easier to confide in them than some other male friends about my problems and the reason is maybe becos we were once together so communication was easy
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@mjoy07 (204)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
i'm not yet married but i had 5 bfs before my current relationship.
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
I've had 6 official girlfriends. There's a point in my life that i have love them. Of course because they became my girlfriend. They wouldn't become my girlfriend if i didn't love them right? Right now i am single and i'm looking forward to knowing my 7th girlfriend. Hopefully, she will be the last because to be honest, i'm really tired of relationships come and go.
• India
22 Jan 09
I had my first boyfriend when I was around 16. Didn't go out with him as such, but cycled together. He was a good guy. 2nd came into my life right after the first. I kind of ditched my first guy. Actually, I wasn;t sure, maybe I was so overwhelmed with the attention I got from my 2nd. He was funky and stylish and had a cool bike. That attracted me then. Soon wore off after I left the place to come to the city. There I fell in love with someone. He did too, but again, just dated him once, he was weird. He is still a mystery that I can never begin to solve. It just lasted for 3 motnhs. We both were young maybe aorund 17-18. I carried his memories for a long long time, because he was someone I really fell for in my young days. AFter I went off for my studies, there was another guy who was handsome and acted as if i meant the world to him. He tried convincing me, his friends tried convincing me, and I tried convincing myself, went out of a few days. Never could fall in love with him. I gave up, but I tried :) because he was a good boy too. Then met a hot shot, actually my friend had a crush on him. Soon I realised he had a crush on me. He was a great looker, great body, damn smart. But no brains. Oops, mistake again. Worse, he hit me a couple of times, whenever he felt threatened. I kicked him out. I also had a very very brief affair with an African guy. He was brainy, looked like Will SMith. But come on, I couldnt give my parents a shock. It just didn;t work out. Then I met someone, whom I thought was the love of my life indeed. I just felt I could do anything for him. Even die for him. We were in two countried. I loved him like crazy and I know he liked me too. But he didnt have the courage to cross the bridge with me. It had to end, though I wished it didn't. AFter that I my man literally walked into my life and told me - 'Hello'. I gave me so much love, that I forgot all the miseries of the past----and I wondered, why didn;t he come early? I dated him for 5 years then married him. And I'm living a dream life with him. If you look at it, I did have had 7 boyfriends before I met my guy. Its disgusitng to jsut look at the numbers, but maybe they were just tests - and the result is my beloved husband - whom I think is a dream come true.
• China
1 Dec 08
I am 24 and I am single now.Had 5 bfs before.Broke up with the last one in October.Have to start dating again!Gosh I hate date!Hate being single.I think I will have 1/2 more relationships before I get married.
@iamcdy (1120)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
Hi nimnim! Well, I am not married yet but since I am set to get married next year, I think I can participate in this discussion as well. I had an ex boyfriend and now I have my current boyfriend, whom I am going to marry next year . Yeah, there are some people who had a lot of past relationships before they get married. I guess it is because they are looking for the best person that they will spend the rest of their lives with.
• China
1 Dec 08
Now I just have one girlfriend and I am not marry now.I think that three gfs(bfs) are best.
• India
1 Dec 08
i had only i girl in my life and she will be my wife in future..i am very much committed to her..
@Porcospino (16435)
• Denmark
1 Dec 08
I am getting married next year and I've had 3 boyfriends (longterm relationships) before I met my fiance. One of my relationships lasted 1 year, one lasted 3 years and one lasted 5 years. I hope that my current relationship will last for the rest of my life ;-)
@smiley83 (1536)
• Malaysia
1 Dec 08
hey, well, everyone has gotten lots of crushers, right! but, at the meantime, i do have someone, and he is the first..but i'm not sure if he is gonna be the last as well.. as i'm studying overseas and he is back in my country..so it is seldom to get in touch these days... i'm just hoping for the best... smiley,
@margaux08 (1094)
• Philippines
30 Nov 08
uhmm... he was the only one. he was my first and last boyfriend before we got married.