My husband sacrificed his most prized possession so we could pay a bill.

@writersedge (22563)
United States
November 30, 2008 8:38pm CST
My husband had a 1920s rifle with cherry stock that looked absolutely beautiful. He had to sell it to pay a bill. He hated to do it. I really hope I can get a job, pay next month's bills and even buy back that rifle. My background check still hasn't come back yet. It may be 4 more weeks (next year) before it comes back. I will have to rededicate myself to finding a job, one not based on that background check. But all the schools in the area use that one background check. So something besides schools and substitute teaching. Unfortunatley, that's all I see in the newspaper are sub teaching jobs. I'm still trying to find something to sell in case I can't get a job to get through December. My bow (as in bow and arrow kind of bow) is the only thing that I can see that might sell. It's not really a hunting bow. It's a nice one. It's left handed (even though I'm right handed, I'm left-eyed). So not sure what I can get for it. If it was a hunting one, I'm sure I could get a lot of money because with the economy the way it is and the price of meat, many more people are hunting now than ever before, esp. amoung the unemployed up here. So have you ever had to sell a prized possession? Do you know anyone who has had to sell something with a lot of meaning to him/her/them? What is your most prized possession? What would it take for you to sell it?
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I am so sorry writer..Both my husband and I have small things that might bring money, but we don't know where to sell..I am not familiar with e-bay other than buying and I don't trust any antique dealer with things I am clueless of thier worth..I do have a cast iron stove that if I can find the missinf part, might sell for 1,500-2,000, but I would need a metal detector to locate it, if it wasn't thrown away..So we have been close, we just don't know how to go about it.. And I know what you mean, tonight I am getting ready to apply at walmart and K-mart, not my choice of a job, but better thwan nothing..
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Again, too bad we don't live near each other. My husband has a metal detector. If the part is regular iron, you could use a magnet, provided the part wasn't buried. But cast iron isn't dense enough, my husband just told me. There are about three appraisers in my area. Many aren't buying, so they tell me pretty true. When the economy gets better, they might buy something.
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• United States
1 Dec 08
We have a shed in the back where the floor is disintegrating (sp?), and that is where the cast iron stove was stored because my husband said it was ugly..Well, he allowed me to bring it in, (minus the one missing piece) after he was told that someone had one like it on that PBS show where they aprraise things, (can't remember the name), and they were told it worth 2,000... Go figure, always takes someone else to convince my husband of anything...
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Antique Roadshow Maybe someone at your husband's job has a metal detector or maybe one of your friends. If you ask around, someone might have one. Good luck at finding a job, to both of us. Take care.
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• Philippines
1 Dec 08
awwww! that is awesome. My husbands most prized possession is his guitar. He loves to play his guitar and sing with it. And he is very good in playing lead guitar. Our friends are amazed listening to him play. If worse come to worst I think my husband will such thing too. But it would be very hard for him to let it go.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Trust me, this was hard, he waited until the last minute, litterally. Hope it never comes to that for you, two. Thanks and take care.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
I really admire your husband for what he did, that was not easy. Don't feel too bad because that will be for your sake. I know things will be better for you and in time you can have his rifle back. We also had our rough days but eventually got through it, I don't remember selling my prized possession though or I haven't had any then since I'm pretty young at that time. Cheer up writersedge, I know it's just another challenge for you to make you stronger :)
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
It is X-mas time and someone with real money could show up and admire it in front of his partner and end up with it before I can earn the $ back. I hope I get a job soon. Thanks and take care.
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• India
1 Dec 08
Hi friend, I am very sorry to hear that news from you.I hope you would definitely get a job as soon as possible and buy for your husband.I think i have no idea about all these things.May be my parents may do so. Have a nice day
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Thanks. If some day, when you're older and on your own, you had to sell something, what prized possession do you hope to never have to sell?
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@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
so sorry to hear that.. hope you would be able to find a job soon.. i also sacrificed some of my gadgets(Ipod, Sony PSP and Nokia phone) in order to pay my rent and electricity bills.. i really don't want to sell my most prized possessions but i've got no choice but to sacrifice the things i have.. yay!
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
It seems like you just get the things you worked hard for that you want and then you have to pay bills. Thanks for commiserating with me and take care. I hope the economy and our lives get better soon. Thanks and take care
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• United States
1 Dec 08
We got in a bind once. I had to say good-bye to my grandmother's sewing machine. It was hard but I don't sew much and neither do my daughters. Plus, my husband's job moves us every few years. Keeping the machine under those circumstances just didn't make sense so I put it on eBay.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Another excellent response. It is hard to give up your Grandmother's sewing machine. I hope someone on ebay gave you enough $ for your bills and that the person appreciated it.
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@breezie (1246)
• Canada
1 Dec 08
I am sorry to hear about your financial hardships. My boyfriend and I have been in difficult financial situations as well and had to sell things that we would rather not have sold. He sold his truck that he had spent over a year fixing up. Sadly the ammount he was able to get for it was nowhere near what he had put into it, but we needed the money so we took what we could. We do what we have to in difficult times. I hope that you are able to get a job soon and get back on your feet soon
@riyasam (16556)
• India
1 Dec 08
it is so nice of him to do that.i used to think only women know how to sacrifice.but obviously there are exceptions.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Dec 08
it is very sad to hear the sacrifice he made. but [paying the bill was also necessary i guess. so there is no way. market is also very down. try to look out actively for other jobs.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Thanks, I'm trying. Takecare
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@PearlGrace (3171)
• United States
2 Dec 08
That is too bad that your husband had to sell his rifle to pay a bill. I have my fingers crossed that a good job will come your way as I know you've been working triple time to get one. When we moved down here from up north, we put all our pieces of antique furniture in an auction and sold them as we just didn't think they could take the heat and humidity down here. Although I'm glad we didn't try to move them all down here (that would have been tough), I do still miss my oak sideboard and pier mirror (over 10 feet tall) that I had in my dining room up north. Your question about what is my most prized possession is interesting. I honestly don't know. I have a box of pictures that I take when we are running from hurricanes, does that count? I have a couple of pieces of nice jewelry that my husband purchased for me over the years that I cherish. It's weird but I don't feel terribly attached to any things. But if I had to sell my stuff, I might actually feel very attached to them, I'm just not sure.
@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I'm sorry to hear that it came to that. I really hope you can get it back. I really don't have much to begin with so no prized possesion. I imagine it would be a ring if I had one. Sometimes you do what you have to to get by. Good luck on finding a job.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Thanks. My husband now says his prized possession is his teddy bear. It's been with him through thick and thin plus it's so beat up that no one would want it besides him. He's trying to be a real sport about this. Yes, we do what we have to do to get by. Hope we don't have to do much more of this. Take care.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Yes, my hubbie is adorable! The teddy bear is pretty cute, too.
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@mrsjbelle (1640)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Ahhh, he sounds like a good guy! I'm imagining him hugging the teddybear. How sweet.
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@animeniak (425)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I'm sorry to hear that your husband had to sell his 1920s rifle just so you can pay a bill, but I never had to sell my most prized possession, because I really don't have one. Maybe a laptop that I use everyday, but never even bothered to sell it, because I know that my life would be painful without it. My family is also under economic crisis as well, but I don't really remember my dad selling one of his prized possessions just so we can pay our bills. But I did sell some of the things that I really didn't want to keep, like my old digital camera that I really didn't use, a computer game that I really didn't want to play, a book that I had to read for my AP US history class (a boring one), and one of the iPod accessory that I had and didn't really use, and some others I did sell on ebay.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I tired selling stuff I don't want to keep first, but no one wanted it. Hope you never have to sell your lap top, but since you're getting an education, you'll have to keepit. Take care.
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• United States
1 Dec 08
yeah, I don't want to sell my laptop either. Hopefully your family will revive from your little economic crisis, must be a pain in the neck over there. Good luck and happy mylotting :)
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• United States
1 Dec 08
I'm so sorry to hear that writersedge! I hope things get better for you and your husband! I can't say that I've never had to sell a personal possession to pay a bill, but I've come very close. There were a few times we thought about putting items up for sale on Ebay just to make paying bills a little easier. That might be an option for. If you have anything stashed away in your attic, you could always put it up for sale on Ebay or Craig's list. We thought about putting items up for sale that we have but don't really use, like an old gaming system or some video games that we don't play. DVD's can also make you a few extra bucks.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
2 Dec 08
We've sold a lot of videos, books, etc. The few things I have left, people don't want to buy. But I was old to try a store on one of the main streets in our nearest city. I was told the same items, they tried to sell on ebay and didn't even get a bid. People are only buying necessities and Christmas gifts up here. So unless it comes under one of those two headings, not selling at all. I did get some encouraging news, my background check finally came in and I will be voted on tonight.
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• Canada
2 Dec 08
Oh man that must have hurt :( last year I had to sell my 1940 Luger to pay back some depts it sure wasn't my best decision I was majorly ripped off :( I never got it back either.
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• United States
2 Dec 08
I would hold out on selling something that meant a lot to me. The circumstances that would prompt me to sell an item that held a lot of meaning would have to be quite dire.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
2 Dec 08
Pretty dire, I've gone though all but $850 of my $20 thousand dollars in savings/retirement since 1998 which is the last time I had a job that actually paid all my bills. Taxes, either pay them now or get hit with penalties and charges and added 7% starting the day after you're late. Plus those taxes get added to the other taxes in January. Even cutting out as many things as I can, still using about $500 a month in my savings/retirement plan. Just took out $100 so far for this month, so I'm at $700 and some days, because it's in stocks, I go to take money out and there isn't any or there is almost none and some days I'm at negative. When he sold it, it was the last day on the taxes and there wasn't enough $ in the account to pay anything.
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I am so sorry your husband had to sell his rifle in order to pay a bill. Hopefully you can get a job and buy back the rifle before Christmas. I only have one really antique that I would never sell. Want to keep it in the family. It was my great grandmother's coffee grinder from the 1800's. Was passed down to me by my now deceased mother. Will make certain one of our kids gets the grinder.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
That sounds like a really neat grinder. I've wanted an old time set of spice, flour, etc. grinders. That's pretty neat that it has gone though the generations. Thanks and take care.
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@Carrie26 (1587)
• United States
2 Dec 08
I am sorry to hear about that writersedge.My husband sold his xbox 360 about a year ago as he never played it much but he didnt get back all he payed for it as he sold it on ebay with 2 games (and the games were around 50.00 a peice when he bought them)and ebays listing fees are so high now that by the time you sell things on thier it isnt worth it at times.Amazon isnt high on fees though.We sold a couple of books and movies on thier.It seems the way the economy is going everyone will have to get work whihc might be hard to do with the economy.if people begin to not buy since the conomy is bad then jobs will be lost.But the xbox was my husbands prized possesion you could say as he likes to play games.He plays online games now on the computer which is a membership of 15.00 a month.I haven been able to donat plasma or I would as I have been sick and just found out my city water was contaminated.At least I think it is as we have to send the water sample away.I was sick for a month.I thought I had the flu but after a week didint think it was the flu.So that cut me alot of time i could have been donating plasma and making some money.I hope your situation gets better and that you can find you a job.I try to do stuff online at home but even that doesnt pay a lot at times and plus I have 2 young kids so not much I can do except at nights at times.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I hope you feel better soon. I also hope things improve for you financially. Chocolate is supposed to be recession proof and medicine-related. So if you can find something in either of those areas, it will be a help. Glad your husband found a substitution and I hope he can continue to afford it. If the city water is contaminated, they should pay for your medical and fix the problem. Let us know how this turns out. Get better. Take care
@di1159 (1580)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Sorry to hear of your situation. I've never had to sell any prized possession, but if I did, I wouldn't hesitate. Material goods are nice and all, but if it comes down to choosing between that or paying the rent, I wouldn't dwell on it. It can always be replaced, or bought again, and I wouldn't waste my precious energy worrying about it. I hope you can get a job soon and that you can remedy the situation. My prized possession is a pair of earrings my grandmother found back in the 1940's. She never had them appraised for fear that someone would try to take the gems out. I just want to get it appraised to see if its worth anything, but I wouldn't want to part with them regardless of what they are worth.
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• Malaysia
1 Dec 08
So sorry to hear this. I never sell my most valued possession although I nearly sold my 20 years old electric guitar. I had the same situation like yours and intended to sell my guitars although I really can buy a new one after that but its the sentimental value and rare item. It could fetch a few thousand since it was a custom japanese made and seems rare around musician and collectors. I just nearly sold that but instead a good friend of mine gave some personals loan to me. I'm just glad that it don't happen otherwise I'll surely regret it the whole life.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
Wow! That sounds really neat. You were lucky. Every time I wanted to sell my prized possession, more money showed up, until this last time, then I tried to sell them and no one would buy them. Thanks and take care.
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• United States
1 Dec 08
I am sorry for your economic situation. I fortunately have never had to sell a prized possession of mine. I know that my family's friends have had to sell important items of their own such as a motorcycle. My personal prized possession is my grandfather's watch. It isn't worth more than five dollars, yet I refuse to get rid of it. It is a sentimental item I would not sell for anything.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
1 Dec 08
I understand not wanting to sell something that your Grandfather had. Price is not as important as the memories. Glad you've never had to sell a prized possession. Took me forever to be able to afford that dang bow and now I will have to sell it. Thank you for saying you're sorry for my situation. I know people in worst situations than me. That frustrates me, I've always been able to help others. Oh well, maybe it's just my turn for the help, but it still bothers me. Thanks and take care.
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