Problem solving. How do you approach?

@deserve40 (1605)
India
December 2, 2008 9:39am CST
Each one of faces problems many times in the life. It is very easy to blame others for causing problems. However, more important thing is that they problem should be solved. So how do you try to solve the problems?
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4 responses
@Porcospino (16425)
• Denmark
2 Dec 08
I always try to solve my problems on my own if I can. Sometimes I write down every solution to the problem that I can think of, no matter how stupid the idea is I just write it down. Then I erase the solutions which are illegal, dangerous or plain stupid and concentrate on the rest of the ideas. I think about each idea and try to find the positive and the negative sides. If I can't find any good solutions I look for information about the problem and try to figure out what other people have done in similar situations. Maybe I can get inspired or think of something new. If I am stuck and can't find a solution to the problem I ask my fiance, my parents or a friend for help, but the truth is I am not very good at listening to advice, I prefer to follow my own ideas and find my own solutions.
@deserve40 (1605)
• India
3 Dec 08
Thanks for the response. If I summerize: # See all the options available to you. # Leave option which you feel are not suitable. # If stell you do not find suitable solution, then check if someone had faced similar problem and try to find out suitable solution from his or her experience.
@inder86 (566)
• Gibraltar
2 Dec 08
my rule is simple if you did a mistake just stand for it or you might put yourself to a big problem.other wise no one will ever trust you.
@deserve40 (1605)
• India
3 Dec 08
Thanks for the response. It is better to stand by yourself and accept if you have made a mistake.
• India
2 Dec 08
I have faced lots of problem and been facing through lots of problems for the last couple of months..whenever i meet with a problem i really dont take it to my mind. i just approach it as it comes near me ..i jus before a couple of months faced a threatning problem in which i was really stuck and then i made through it and even though it was not favourable to me i kept moving with it and now also i approach the same way only..happy mylotting..
@deserve40 (1605)
• India
3 Dec 08
You mean that we should not bother about the problems to come in future and face them as they come in our way. However, I personally feel that if we have some pre planning, then we will be able to face such problems more comfortably. It is true that when problem arises we should keep our head cool and try to solve it.
• Philippines
2 Dec 08
I usually solve my problems all by myself... Sometimes I also sought advice from other people. I analyzed which solution was the best for my problem and I have to decide it really carefully.