Is it really easy to just love but difficult to accepting it ?

Indonesia
December 2, 2008 11:36am CST
I have this wonderful quotes from comic book that said "it is easy to love, but it's difficult to accept this love" Somehow that quotes made me think deep inside. and then I finally have this conclusion. I find it true enough that we can easily falling in love within seconds, even to someone we barely knew yet (somehow love can just fall). But to accept love itself is another thing to deal with. as far as my thought goes I find two types of accepting love that is very difficult or painful to have. 1st. is really hard to accept love from someone you don't fall in love to. 2nd. is even harder and painful to accept love that someone you love is actually doesn't feel the same for you. So then I make this silent agreement for that quotes and start to spread it wisely elsewhere. Can anyone agree with that quotes too or have other opinion to make me re-think it again before spreading it too far ??
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@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
2 Dec 08
Hello, rayesht! As you said, it is pretty hard to accept that somebody you love doesn't love you back. And it is hard to accept that somebody loves you when you don't love them, but that doesn't hurt you. I guess that what you have said is really true. I completely agree with you in this. But I don't know if this is what the quote meant. I don't know if this relates to the quote. Perhaps the quote is trying to explain that, sometimes, you are acting so great towards a friend. But you do not see it as love. You are there, loving the person, but you do not accept that you are. Or, when you are married, for example, and you love somebody else. It is easy to just love the other person, acting nicely towards the other person. But it is really hard to admit that you are not in love with the woman you married. This must be pretty difficult. I guess it was something like this that the quote meant. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
• Indonesia
3 Dec 08
True... My act toward friends sometimes makes them think that I care enough to love them when actually only think them as friends, I then like giving them promises I can't keep and somehow its difficult... and to love someone that can never love you back is really something i found very painful, i want to let the feeling go or just forget about it. but i cant, this type of accepting is the hardest one in my experience. thanks for your thought though.
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@munhozmib (3853)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
9 Dec 08
Yes, it is hard to accept the fact that somebody does not love you back. That's necessary, though.
@chabawel (330)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Some people have hard time accepting love when they feel insecure to the thought that there is actually someone out there who is willing to take a chance with him/her of loving him/her completely and unconditionally.
• Indonesia
5 Dec 08
And to feel that is stupid I guess.. to just accept love and see how it will goes and take me to where.. but insecure i feel is only just because too much thinking and worrying of what it would become without even trying just once.
• United States
2 Dec 08
I agree with what you are saying 100 % !