Are you still with your first love??

India
December 2, 2008 11:54pm CST
hello friends, I am asking a little personal question. I just want to see the ratio for the success of the First Love. My point of view is pretty clear, I think either you dont get success in your first love or you couldn't kept carry on with your first love for a longer time. I may be wrong, but i would like know your reasons and your views and your experiences. Are you still with your first love? Are you sure, that Your first choice was not wrong? Are you happy with your love?? Thank you guys......
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@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
I am. We just celebrated our 12 and a half years together last Monday and will be celebrating our 4th year of marriage on the 28th of this month. before we married each other, it took 8 and a half years. Reason for this is, he was studying LAW and we had to wait until he passed the BAR before we got married. With those years, we have literally been with each other through ups and downs. We've seen each other in our worst and darkest moments. And we are still here... we must be doing something right, I guess. LOL!
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• India
3 Dec 08
hey.. congrats.... such a lucky gal you are... wish u happy married life forever with ur partner.
@piya84 (2581)
• India
3 Dec 08
hey jam dats realy gr888...yup u are realy lucky peson...yes u were doing something right....accepting someone in their gloriste days is easy thing..accepting some one in their darkest days is the thing wich build trust ,faith strnght inr relationship... i watvh around me...i realy get upset when people break up on small small things instead on working issues..n growing up together..
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@tyc415 (5706)
• United States
3 Dec 08
When I was young I thought I was in love a few times then one day I met this one and as soon as I saw him I knew I was in love and wanted to marry this person. It took awhile but later on he realized he loved me too and we are still together, married, 3 children and 5 grandchildren. I know my choice was the right one for me. I am happy most of the time, I just wish time didn't go by so fast.
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• India
3 Dec 08
ohhhhhhhhhhh god........ M really happy for you....
@shonali (1286)
• India
3 Dec 08
unfortunately for me and him we are no longer together.... my first love was when i was 14 and it lasted for a little less than a year and half.... and actually one day we got caught by my parents and a big meeting happened between his paretns and mine and my dad finally decided to let me have him if he earns a living and proves himself worthy to my father..... so he left for abroad to earn and there was a huge communication gao that came in between us and so there was a chance of people who did not want the relationship to come in the way and fill both our ears on things that were made up about the two of us and so we drifted apart.... we did meet after around 5 years and then when we found out what had actually happened to us .... we told each other that we still loved each other but there was nothing really that we could do at that time as many things had happened and changed between us and around us... so we let it go...we kept in touch for a while till he got married but then later i thought it best to let him go rather than become a perosn to break up his marriage.... for some reason or the other !!
• India
3 Dec 08
m so sorry shonali... It was ur true love, i think so... hats off to you...
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
3 Dec 08
Yes, I am still with my first love. We have been together for the past 16 years (will be 17 years next month) and have been married almost 14 years. We have our ups and downs just like any other relationship, but have stuck it out for all these years. Regardless of whether my choice was right or wrong we'll probably be together for the rest of our lives.
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• India
3 Dec 08
Really great.. how lucky u r!!!!!!
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
When I was still young, I always wanted to have only one man in my life. I said to myself that my first boyfriend would be the one I will be spending the rest of my life with. I had my first boyfriend when I was in College, I was 19 years old that time. I may say that I am a late bloomer. Well, he was one of our neighbors. We were friends before he became my boyfriend. Unfortunately, our relationship did not last for long. It was just a 6-month relationship which was full of happiness and love. We tried to work things out and clear out our differences but that was the way it should be. We let go of each other and continued with our lives. Now, I am married for almost a year now. My husband is my 4th boyfriend and I am very happy that I have met him. Well, things change. We do not get everything we want in our lives. There is always a reason for everything.
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• India
3 Dec 08
We do not get everything we want for sure.....
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
Yes, I'm still with my first love. I was with him for almost three years already and I don't regret being with him. I'm still happy being with him. And I still enjoy his company. Though sometimes we are going on with tough problems, I still believe that being with him is worthwhile. He inspires me to go on with my life and he adds color to my life. For me, I had the right choice of choosing him. Though sometimes it's hard to keep the relationship work, it's worth fighting for because I know that somehow, we are meant for each other. We are just enjoying our relationship.
• India
3 Dec 08
cool.......... i wish, the same reply from my girlfriend after few years... Wish u very very successful life..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
3 Dec 08
I have not heard about my first love, what happened to him or if he is still alive. lol...Obviously, I did not end up with him and do not regret at all. He will remeain to be my first and past love. Where is he? I do not know. lol
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• India
3 Dec 08
Really sad....
@liuenze (54)
• China
3 Dec 08
hi jadhavsiddh: I still whth my first love.We have met for 3 years. We both love eachothers.We are very happy now.we will marriage soon
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• India
4 Dec 08
wish u a very good luck liuenze.......
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I'm not with my first. I think he was a great person but we were both very young. I don't think he had any faults but for me I should have given him more space. I wanted to be near him all the time. What an annoyance I must have been.
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@Elvali (68)
• China
3 Dec 08
No,I'm not still with my first love but I still love him.And I know we won't get together again,but I like to be friends with him.Well,most of first love will not last long or come to good.But there is a small amount of couples who are the first lovers to each other.And one of my roommates is still in romantic relationship with her first lover whose first lover is still her.I think it's god-given chance to be together for so long.Hope they will be together forever.
• India
3 Dec 08
the same story happen with me. But i wouldn't like to be her friend any more. It will hurt me more than any thing. I would avoid her to forget her. Its really tough to forget your first love.
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@chaolai (162)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
i am not happy with my first love, at firts it is but in the end it makes my heart break in two. i dont wanna remember him but houw could i he is the first. i hope theres no more first only second! hahahahah
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• India
4 Dec 08
hmm,thats better to see to the second one,,,than thinking alwayz about first one...........and all the best for ur second one.lolz........hahahhahaha
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• United States
3 Dec 08
My first love and I are not together. We were together at a very young age and then grew up and became different people. I don't hold any hard feelings toward him, I hope he has met a woman that makes him the happiest man in the world. I have loved a few more since him and the man I love now I'm engaged too! I don't regret any of those relationships, as I believe it was every single one of them that led me to my fiance.
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• United States
3 Dec 08
No, because I hadn't had the opportunity to grow up first. We were together for about 2 years and if we had had a chance to mature first we probably would have been able to make it.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 08
Oh I've been with her...I'm still with her. It's already been 20 years. And we met at 6 years old.
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• India
3 Dec 08
u r just unbelievable.
@sarawaken (360)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 08
OH YES. Were were just sixteen when we began dating.We went to different schools,so it was hard to see each other, then broke up. A couple of years later we got back together.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
3 Dec 08
I am not still with my first love. I was only 17 when I fell in love for the first time. At that age I had no clue about who I really was. I do not think that relationship would have survived through my self discovery phase.
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• Philippines
3 Dec 08
first love..... how i wish his still there..... but sad to say his already gone... right now im single and longing for someone who will love me for who am i..
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@zhangfzoe (432)
• China
3 Dec 08
We get together for more than five years. But now , I can't accept he is just my friend. So I avoid to contact him anymore. Thank the time he spent with me. Five years , it's not a short time. It's not easy to forget. So I do not force myself to forget it. I just hope the broken up will not hurt me anymore.
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@joystick7 (728)
• India
3 Dec 08
Nope.. I feel that the first one is always history..
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@Random28 (158)
3 Dec 08
It is very hard to stay with the person you first loved because everyones tastes change.
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