love at the first sight

China
December 3, 2008 2:42am CST
Did you fall in love with somebody at the first sight? After I got out of school and began my first job,many kind friends introduced somebody to me.Of course I am single and am looking for a boyfriend.However it's so bad luck that I didn't meet with somebody who I fell in love with.Does love at the first sight exist?
5 responses
• Puerto Rico
4 Dec 08
of course it doesn't exist. you can have an attraction and find someone pretty but love have to be cultivated
• China
4 Dec 08
Yeah,I can't agree with you more that love have to be cultivated.However when I met in person somebody whom I found charming, I have no idea what I should do.I don't know how to express me.
• India
5 Dec 08
It happened to me about one year ago.But I dont know about that girl and cannot find the details of her.
• United States
3 Dec 08
Well I didn't exactly fall in love at first sight. I met my husband online. We talked for 10 months before meeting in person. and when he was walking towards me in the airport I just couldn't move. I just watched him walking towards me. It was love at first sight, I knew from that day that I was going to marry him. That was over 2 years ago. Now it wasn't first sight cause I knew him but seeing him in person just made everything right. I wouldn't wait around for first sight love but I wouldn't go looking for love. Love will come when your not expecting it at all. I wasn't looking for love when I met my husband online on a poker site.
• China
4 Dec 08
I admire you and your experience.Wish you happiness for ever.
@krusti (7)
3 Dec 08
i have never had a boyfriend that i fell in love with at first sight. some people may think that it is sad that i have not experienced love at first sight but on the whole love at first sight is not worth waiting for it's more like lust at first sight because love only comes when you get to know a person.how can you say you love some one if you don't know them. love at first sight may exist but i guess it's vary rare, i can't think of any of my friends that have had love at first sight either, probably just another thing you on see in the movies!!!
• China
4 Dec 08
Yeah.Thank you for your valuable suggestion.I get it.
• China
8 Dec 08
in my eye,you are too young and could not experience many feeling hurts and cheats. For majority male, the s e x is more important than the love. The boy not only likes you,but also intends to sleep with you and enjoy your beauty and body. In the other hand, even the true love must face plenty of difficulties. you should share the same value, religion and relationship. Love at first time should be just among the young and adolescence's eyes.
• Malaysia
5 Dec 08
Hi, love at the first sight do exist. But a real love usually came from the first look of a boy towards a girl. When he fell in love, he will do anything to get his lovers heart. And for the ladies too do have the love at the first sight but it is very rare for a girl to tell a boy that she has fallen for him. But who knows time already change.