should i make a move?

@nimette (339)
Philippines
December 3, 2008 7:54am CST
here's the situation. there was this guy, he's 10 yrs older than me and he'd been my supervisor for the month of aug. i sort of had a crush on him but totally dismissed the idea of having a relationship with him beacuse he's probably married. he's nice to everyone, but my friends noticed that he's specially nicer to me, nothing really romantic though. just last week i resigned from work and then he texted me asking what happened and stuff which really surprised me because hey why does he care so much he's not even my supervisor that moment. and then he asked if we could go out sometime and told me to keep in touch. i kind of agreed but since then i received nothing from him again and i was left here waiting. i think i really like him because i couldn't stop thinking bout him. thoughts of him gives me a rush, aches and stuff. he said he isn't married but ive checked his web profile, pictures of him and 2 kids constantly appears. what should i do should i contact him??? or just forget it.
2 responses
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
from a guys point of view, there are guys who are not married but in a relationship and has children. so therefore if those guys were asked if they are married they will answer no, for they are not really married. if you want to take the risk then why not have a try, just to know him more better. but take good care of yourself and your feelings as well. dont get too much deep before you find out all the truth. goodluck
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@nimette (339)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
yeah thank you so much, i'll keep your advice in mind. it's all about taking risk anyway i'll probably be sorry my whole life if i didn't make move, i should at least know the person first before judging that he isn't right for me.
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
i myself dont want to be living in a life of what ifs.... i want to know it and find out myself than just hearing in from other people. it is just like a movie. some people say it is not a good movie some people say it is. so you have to watch it for you to find out. now if you didnt like the movie then for sure you are not going to watch it again. as i said take care of yourself.
• Nigeria
3 Dec 08
This is it, that he is ten years older than you does not mean you can go out with cause age doesn't really matter in any relationship or friendship but you have to make sure that he is not married cause i wouldn't advice you to go out with a married man. Can you answer this question within your self: Will you be happy if your husband is having an affair out side the wed lock? if no, then even intend to go out with him if he is married ok. But if not married, you can even call on him if you see that he is taking time to take action since you also have feelings for him, ok.
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@nimette (339)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
yeah i couldn't hold it any longer so i texted him a while ago LOL. we're in touch again now..hopefully everything goes well. he said he's not married. hopefully i'll figure out the real score when we go out next week. thanks for the response!n_n