How do you feel????

United States
December 5, 2008 7:06pm CST
Hi !! i just want to share some problem that i have yesterday!! How you feel when one of the people who you loves a lot accused you of something that you have not really done? Yesterday at the afternoon exactly someone that I really love very much accuse me of something that i really didnt! And the truth i said and explain anything to him to try to understand me and nothing worked!! I believe that my word was not as credible as to trust in me! how you could explain if you have boyfriend he do not believe in your word??? this is so frustrating for me :| because we have 3 years and no the 3 years doesnt mean anything?? lol!!everything is in the trash by a simple misunderstanding i just dont know what to say Well have a nice day and hope you will have a very good week ;) see you soon and bye bye.
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10 responses
@gtdonna (1740)
6 Dec 08
Well I guess you will have to let not only your words but your actions prove that you did not do what you are being accused of doing. Sometimes it is hard to really speak to someone and prove to them that what they are accusing you about is not true. I find that what works best is to let them cool their heads, sit and think it over and come to a decision on their own. In the meanwhile the best you can do is let your boyfriend knows that you love him enough to never do what you are being accused of because he means the world to you and you woudl never think to hurt him. A bit of affection can go a long way and every man likes to know he's loved.
• United States
6 Dec 08
Thank you gtdonna your right!!! And i will do it :) thank you so much :) have a nice day
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
sorry to hear about what happens to u..ive been in a relationship in 6 years already, it always comes to that point, very disappointed but what i did is to leave him what he wanted to be in the end he will realized that he needs me i cant afford to trashed the relationship that we have...just made him realize.... happy posting
• China
12 Dec 08
Hi,hello,see you again.I am sorry to hear that.It is unfair that the people who you loves a lot accused you of someting that you have not really done.In this time the best way to solve the problem is to leave him alone,when he get cool,calm down,think more about your goodtime,he will come to you,and that is the best time you can tell him the truth,let him believe you,trust you.It can strenthen your relationship,wish you goodluck my friend!
@kunking (1116)
• China
12 Dec 08
hi, theembittered! don't be frustrated, buddy. if i were u, i also would feel vey upset by being accused the something i didn't done at all, expecially its form ourlovers...but do not fight it back because it only may hurt you both...i reckon there are really misunderstanding between you and your boyfriend..and the only way of solving this kind of problem is talking or communication..i don't know why your lover doesn't believe in your words, maybe u could expain it patiently again or find something or someone to be proved..maybe ur lover needs time to calm down.. have a nice day and happy mylotting!
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
12 Dec 08
It's really sad. I think you should give your boyfriend an ample time to think about all your explanations. Maybe he's just hurt that's why his mind still can't justify things that you told him.. Give him some space for now my friend... Good luck!
• India
6 Dec 08
Hello my friend theembittered Ji, I think someone is trying to do fishing in troubled water. There must be somebody who may not be ineterested in your relations, either because of social bindings or may be taht she might be interested in that guy. To un-wind, go back in recent past, and think about all that change in his attitude, what were the circumstances lead you to thi state. You will come across some thread, which requires to be pulled from its root to make better relation. I am sure you can make it . Just you have to try. May God bless you and have a great time.
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
You have to prove it through actions, not just say it through words. As long as you have a clear conscience, you don't have to waste time worrying about your loved one not trusting you. He/she will find out that you are innocent all this time.
@intanayu (56)
• Indonesia
6 Dec 08
better,man like this leave it alone.Because it all shows that he is not good for you.
@rberon1985 (5394)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
Saf to hear that from you. You know you can still fix it. It is just a small misunderstanding. Anf you can still fix it. I have also experienced that situation. With me, it has proven that there is a third party involve, but i still forgive her. Don't woory, he will came to realized that his wrong of not believing in you. One of this days, he will be at your side. have a nice day!
@jolan07 (70)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
i've also encountered that kind of situation...but did u know that this guy who a ccused me for doing tha thing i,ve never dine was the on was guilty for doing it.... what i've done was that....i've broke him up....