Did you ever ask them?

Hi Lyn, nice to see to after a while. I feel, we kind of take each other for granted, which is not right. We take it for granted that we love and care for each other - thats' the way it is supposed to! But we must express ourselves more and more. In most cases even though love is still there, it needs to be whetted. I would love to do things differently to spice it up, I would like my partner to express and do little little things for me to show That I am still special. It makes so much difference!

you are right about the fact that when you are just married everything seems perfect but as time goes on you see some things which somehow makes you uncomfortable but these are the things that actually make the relationship better if well managed but one must alsoi be careful not to look out vfor fault this may be a minus for any relationship and the way we put our dislikes across matters a lot ,i do ask mty partner ,what it is that actually make her decide to go along with me and she will always say i dont know but am happy i did and believe me its the same with me i cant really say why i want her to be near at all times but i just know i want her to be there with me