Did you ever ask them?
December 6, 2008 12:23am CST
Wifes or Hubby out there did you ever ask your partner what makes them made you happy in your everyday living, even just a little things that make them smile or make them inspired to live? I just thought specially with those relationship that have been married for almost a 5 yrs longer and still living and loving together. At first of marriage absolutely all the things that both of you doing together are very pleasant to him/her but we must admit things have change. And maybe this question might open your eyes to ask them.... or maybe you already know the answer. Please share with us friends... Have a nice day mylotters...
8 Dec 08
Hi Lyn, nice to see to after a while. I feel, we kind of take each other for granted, which is not right. We take it for granted that we love and care for each other - thats' the way it is supposed to! But we must express ourselves more and more. In most cases even though love is still there, it needs to be whetted. I would love to do things differently to spice it up, I would like my partner to express and do little little things for me to show That I am still special. It makes so much difference!
• South Africa
8 Dec 08
you are right about the fact that when you are just married everything seems perfect but as time goes on you see some things which somehow makes you uncomfortable but these are the things that actually make the relationship better if well managed but one must alsoi be careful not to look out vfor fault this may be a minus for any relationship and the way we put our dislikes across matters a lot ,i do ask mty partner ,what it is that actually make her decide to go along with me and she will always say i dont know but am happy i did and believe me its the same with me i cant really say why i want her to be near at all times but i just know i want her to be there with me