What attractive qualities of man/woman you looking for?
December 6, 2008 11:34am CST
We have a different of taste for the guy/girl we looking for. I admit that when I look in the guy I first notice how good looking he is, then if his kind, he has a sense of humor, trustworthy, understanding and then if we he like me, I ask for my self if I like him too, then a stable financial status, talented and passionate.... Its hard to find the guy I wanted for, but its before because now I found him more than a package I wanted for the guy..... So what attractive qualities of man/woman you looking for? Can you share with us?
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6 Dec 08
I guess it's because I'm single and sick of it, but I don't know how many times I have answered this question. Both in discussions like this one and on my own blog. I think everyone looks at appearance first, except maybe the people meeting online. It certainly is not (always) the deciding factor and I know lots of people who fell in love with friends who they were not initially attracted to, physically. "Physically attractive," to me, is dark hair, smart eyes (which probably only makes sense to me but it's the only way I can think of to say it - intelligence is very attractive to me and you can often see it in people's eyes; if they are the thinking, pondering type or if they are just happily ignorant). 5'6-7" and 160-ish is a great size - I have a bit of a female Napoleon complex and don't like feeling too overpowered by my Mister's size. I also look at a guy's hands because I am a sucker for musicians and they, guitarists and pianists especially, tend to have distinctive long, slender fingers. Also, there is a distinct callous that writers and artists get, usually on their middle finger of their dominant hand, from holding their pen or pencil and I'd love to find a musician who is also a writer. After I get past the surface, I look for someone I can enjoy spending time with. Someone who enjoys music and movies, conversation. Of course someone who is trustworthy and stable (both emotionally and financially), who is not threatened by my efforts to be friends with his friends and who is not threatened by my relationship with my Sisters (I am known to drop everything to help them out if they need it). Jealousy in moderate doses is flattering (it means he thinks he has something another guy would want to steal), but there is a fine line between flattering and irritating so I'd rather not be flattered. LOL, see, I said I had given this a bit of thought. Now, it's just about finding that ^ guy.
6 Dec 08
Hi, Well for me honesty is the most important thing. I dont go much in the looks. Looks can be very misleading, lol. One hsd be true to his/ her words. I dont like people who say something and do the other. Then i dont like a person who is too emotional and reacts to everything. I like people who believes life is for going some thing good and postive. I firmly believe that if u stay arounf postive people then u r bound to get positive in life too. I avoid negative people and people who say things behind others. Cheers, Tutul