Will you just stop crying!!!!

That must be irritating on your part not being able to live in peace in your own home. Maybe you could ask the parents to tell your concern with them. I think they are reasonable enough to hear your side and concern about their daughter. I think it's the parent's responsibility to discipline their children.

Good grief, I really feel for you. That would surely drive me up the wall. I remember when I first bought a flat in 1994 I had neighbours upstairs who had a 3 month old baby. The 2nd night I slept in the flat I was rudely awoken at 1.30am by this screaming baby and I nearly had a heart attack - it was so loud I thought someone had put a baby in my room somewhere and I jumped outa bed and tried to look in the wardrobe for this screeching child. I know babies cry and all that but geez, I went through the same old cr*p that new parents went through for months and months and couldn't sleep through a single night as this baby woke up screaming 4 or 5 times every night. I was never so glad as when they moved out a year or so after I moved in! If I wanted a screaming baby, I would have one myself - I know it's mean to be upset about a crying child but kids cry for a reason. I don't have kids and there's a reason for that - I would hate to have to put up with someone else's screaming child day in day out! Gosh, I sound like a real child-hating monster don't I? LOL Well I'm not, I adore kids and all of my friend's kids adore the heck out of me, I even get along with complete strangers kids!

most of the reason why the children cry is because something is hurting them or they might be hungry..try to adopt a direct method and tell your neighbour that these may be the reasons why she is crying.