which is worse?

@rin888 (75)
Australia
December 10, 2008 12:50am CST
Which is worse!? Would u rather be in a emotionally abusive relationship or a physically abusive relationship... lets just say u had to be in either one, and in the emotionally abusive relationship, your partner, would NEVER hit you... but in the physically abusive relationship he treated you like his sweetheart, untill his physical attacks of course... and to add some more thought, instead of being in one of those relationships, would you rather be single for the rest of your life?
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@eynjel05 (444)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
I haven't been on that relationship and I wish I will not going to experience that. But to answer your question, It is much better that someone will abuse you physically rather than emotionally. Wounds can heal but whatever experience that you have that happened to you emotionally is worst.You can't forget that in your entire life and as long as you live the pain is still there but when someone abuse you physically, those wounds will just heal as time passes by. But whether it's physical or emotional kind of abuse, still it so painful experience and should not be practice. Because when you love a person, you will not be happy to see the one you love suffering from pain that you yourself had caused.
@rin888 (75)
• Australia
10 Dec 08
i too have not been in either, but i am always seeing these beautiful girls with men that hit them, and i could never understand why they choose to stay. but with this question i would pick to be physically hurt, just because like u say, being emotionally hurt stays with your for the rest of your life. but in real life, i think these woman should not stay, because there is always better fish in the seas, and they r pretty easy to catch haha
@celticeagle (121072)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Dec 08
I guess out of pride I would rather deal with the inner turmoil than be physically abused and have that seen. Yes, I would rather be single all of the rest of my life than in an abusive relationship of any kind.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
10 Dec 08
If I had to choose from one of those...I'll probably go with the physically abusive one. Cause, I would rather be hurt physically than emotionally. Its so hard for me to heal if its my emotions that gets hurt.